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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I work together. In the beginning he pursed me heavily. Finding my email, phone, even following me home so he could talk to me. At the time I was in an abusive relationship. Once I told him this he became a great friend. He listened while I talked through my problems, never giving me answers,only asking questions occasionally. I spoke to him daily outside of work,we don't talk at work for privacy reasons. The problem is now that I am out,he only sees me once or twice a week. He tells me I am the only one but I need to focus on myself and my daughter right now. To add to everything he is in a position where he may have to leave at a moments or no notice. He says he does not want to get to close because it hurts and it would hurt my daughter and me. I know the situation though. Is he over me? Because I have fallen for him and it is going to hurt no matte what. I think we should enjoy our love while we have it.
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 I don't know. But like you say, concentrate on you and your daughter. You two are more important.
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