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*k8terGrl498
writes:I am Sexually attracted to my female cousin who Lives with me she's 21 and i am 29 i want do something to her when she comes into my room and sits on my bed and talks to me but I Love her but when we try to do something she gets Scared and runs off into her her?so anyone got any tips
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): From the sound of things, she's not interested, and you shouldn't push her. I'd concentrate on checking out chicks who aren't biologically related to you.
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reader, Straight Up1  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 First of all... There is one little thing called incest which is a pretty obvious reason your cousin is running at once the thought of any physical contact occurs between the two of you. This must be a difficult situation for her being family she doesn't know how to react because of the respect for that bond.I can understand that there is physical attraction between cousins or relatives or there would be no such things as "kissing cousins" but that is labeled to Hillbillies and children under the age of 14.My tip to you is to stab these thoughts out of your head with an imaginary fork and look for a non relative to connect with on a physical level... if you absolutely can't...then I suggest that she or you need to move out.If all else falils here... I guess you could move into a cult of sorts that embodies free love... family or not!! hahaa!!
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (1 September 2008):
 It seems likely that at this point she just isn't interested in what you're interested in. You seem to have made your intentions clear enough to her. You're pretty sure she knows what you have in mind, aren't you? Once you've made that clear (and I think you have ... after all, SOMETHING made her run off, and I don't think it was a spider on the wall), you're just going to have to wait and let her make up her own mind about things.
It may be that she will remain uninterested. If that's the case then you'll have to treat it the same as you would any other potential lover who is not interested in you. Or the way you would want to be treated if someone made a pass at you and you were not interested in them Treat her with respect and dignity and don't push.
And keep your door open. She may still want to talk. But keep your hands to yourself until SHE decides that she wants more. If ever. Who knows ... she may surprise you.
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reader, Adam Lazzara And Jared Leto Are Kings.  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 It's not natural. You may want to do something but self control has to be there somewhere.Leave her alone if i were you.
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