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writes:I split with my partner of 10 years around 6 wks back. I have been chatting to someone who my partner went to school with. People started rumours that we were seeing each other which wasnt true. Since then me and this guy have met and have had sex. We both like each other and no one knows what went off but one his friends who is also my partners friend says that if he ever finds out we even speak 2 each other he will fall out with him and would go crazy!!! What should we do in this situation when we really like each other and havent really done anything wrong but people hate the thought of us being together? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): It doesn't matter what other people think!Unless you are
trying to impress people and live up to their demands,then
it shouldn't matter.If you like being with him and he feels
the same,then you two need to go out into the open and tell
people that you are together and will be,whether they like it or not.I hope I've helped in some way.
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (1 September 2008):
 Well good luck to you. Good choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all your comments, and im not 2 sure why his friends dont like me seeing someone else but have decided we will still see each other although we are going to keep it quite for a while longer.
Many Thanks
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 September 2008):
So when you say "people" don't want you to be together... what you really mean is "your ex boyfriend"
Well screw him! He's not with you any more. It's been 6 weeks and you are allowed to move on. If this ex has a problem then he shouldn't have let you go.
Do what you want with this new guy. You happiness is more important than his to you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (1 September 2008):
If you really like each other, and you think this relationship would be worth sacrificing friends for (a difficult decision) then go for it. The people who will stand by you will prove to be REAL friends. And throughout your life, those are the kind you will need.
Also, why would your ex's friends go ballistic at this relationship? Is it anything to do with them? You are no longer with your ex partner. Hence, none of his business who you choose to see!
Good Luck!
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