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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I dated a guy over break for a few weeks but we go to different colleges that are significantly far apart. I really fell hard and fast for him and all the signs pointed to him really liking me (I am kind of a pessimist but that is what my friends would say every time i mentioned things he said/did). We would text a lot and had good fun conversation, also often when we were talking he would mention something I had said, that even I didn't remember saying but it just showed he was really listening. We both went back to school but never really talked about a future because it was so new. He did tell me that he will be in my area about once a month but that is the extent of what was said about the future. I have only spoken to him once since we resumed our school lives (I texted him) and we didn't really talk that much. Should I just give up and chalk it up to bad timing? I didn't expect a relationship that fast but I thought some contact would be nice, and that doesn't seem to be his thing. Do you think he is still into me or has he just lost interest since we are far apart now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): well we never really got that close...I think I would freak him out if I asked that...already I feel like I am into him more than he is me so I'm afraid that might just drive him away more.
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reader, Littlebitt  +, writes (1 September 2008):
why don't you ask him?
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