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Together for 2 years but I feel we are drifting apart...

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Question - (20 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My man and I have been together for 2 years, living together etc, but it seems like we're drifting apart. Every day he makes excuses for why we can't have lunch together; he's got a meeting, or he has to be in the field, or he needs to run errands. Which is okay, but it seems like when he is at home, he's grumpy and acts like he's mad about something. I've asked him what's causing his anger, but he just blows up and gets mad because I'm asking. (As if I should know). I'm starting to feel like he just doesn't want to be with me anymore and he doesn't know how to tell me so he just avoids being with me as much as he used to. Our sex life has become less frequent. At first I tried to assume he was just under stress at work, but now I'm thinking it's something else, he just won't tell me what and I don't know what to do. I can't drag it out of him, but he seems unhappy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008):

i do have the same problem,and we havent had sex in like 2 weeks, we triee but he couldnt do it both times! i dont understand,he said it is because he has been going through alot at work lately!

i am confused,maybe i am not the one he wants to sleep with anymore...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008):

Stress at work? Or a female at work? Who knows?

You don't have to live with him if he is miserable and grumpy. Talk to him, tell him how you feel.

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