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writes:Why does my ex insist on making me feel miserable after HE DUMPED ME?He keeps insulting me and calling me names, I already have a very low self esteem and this only makes matters worse. He already dumped me because he said he was fed up with me, when all I did was love him.He left me because he was always judging me on my past, he didn’t trust me and thought I was easy. I never cheated nor intended to, but he thought I would based on my past (I never cheated on anybody, it’s just I made out with strangers at parties). Come on, I lost my virginity to him.I’ve blocked him from any means of communication, but still. This hurts like hell, I never did anything as ad to deserve this. I bet now he’s having a lot of fun with his friends or maybe he’s hooking up with a girl, who knows, and I’m the one here suffering, crying, because I loved thta man, all I did was put up with his crap and give him my heart, and this is what I received! Plus, I feel so ugly. I feel so down now, I don’t know what to do.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (20 October 2008):
Wow, you got your self a right psycho there! He said all those things because he wanted to hurt you and knew that would work.If he thought it would hurt he would have said you were too fat / annorexic, a slut / frigid, to tall / short, stupid / up your own arse, etc etc etc.He said things he knew would hurt, not the truth. He made it all up.If he continues to try and call you to insult you then tell him you are reporting him to the police for harassment and tell him you are writing everything he says down to show them.That should scare him off pretty fast.Good Luck!! xx
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reader, sdwwcc11  +, writes (20 October 2008):
I know you can't help the way you feel, but this guy sounds like a jerk to me. He was definitely not mature enough to be in a serious relationship if he can't even put your past behind him in order to even get along with you, or even more important, make you feel like he cares. He had no right do judge you on that.
Try not to be so down on yourself. There are plenty of other guys out there, ones who would treat you with some respect! You just have to get out there and catch one!
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