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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I split up with my boyfriend about a week ago today because I needed space and he keeps texting me every day and it's starting to feel like he's smothering me. I asked him to wait for me while I sort my head out and now I think I have come to the conclusion I can't be with him any longer and I don't know how to break it to him.Every time we split up I end up feeling like shit and running back to him even when I know I'm just going to feel like this again (knowing it's not making me happy)any suggestions? Thanks
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (20 October 2008):
You just have to tell him exactly what you've said here.
Tell him you don't love him, and you don't want to be with him. Tell him you always end up feeling guilty and getting back with him even though your don't want to and that you want him to know that it's over for good.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, accused  +, writes (20 October 2008):
 If you care anything about this man, then you will be honest with him. If you keep going at the rate you've been, you will eventually hurt him more in the long run, and thats just not fair to anyone. If he smothers you and can't give you the space you've asked for then maybe he needs to find someone that is ready for the same things he is. The one thing we can't do is make someone loves us! So even if he keeps texting or you keep running back to him, it will eventually fall thru! and you will start to hate him for loving you so much...
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (20 October 2008):
 You say that you keep returning to your boyfriend, but you really want to break up with him for good.
I could be wrong but I sense that you're still unsure.
Do some profound soul-searching to be sure of what you really want. If you simply need space, tell him. If you really want to break up for good, tell him.
Tell him like it is.
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