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30-35,
*attie90
writes:I need all the help I can get right now, my boyfriend is going to drive me crazy, he's talking and seeing one of his ex girlfriends and I know 4 a fact that she still wants to be with him and I have the strongest of feelings that he is cheating on me with her when she's the biggest step down from me. Now I'm not saying I'im hot as all hell but she's pretty nasty she takes showers but right after the shower she still smells wtf - Anyways I want to bring it up to him that I don't wwnt him to see her or talk to her anymore and the thing that makes me mad is that I told him before not to talk to his ex's but he said wer'e not married, I can talk to whoever I want. Alright, if you want it to be that way you're not going to have me for that much longer if you're goint to keep sayin this crap to me, I need someone to help me bring this up to him that I know everything, she even calls him baby! I need all the help I can get please can anyone help me?
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reader, lilred112 +, writes (14 October 2008):
 well, this is a case! this is how i feel, he should respect what you want in this realtionship just as much as he would want you to respect him. although you guys arent married you still have rules to follow in a reltionship. now i feel that you shouldnt tell him he cant talk to her cause guys is going to take that as if you are trying to control them. But you just definitely tell him how you feel, why you feel that way (bring up the "she calls him baby" stuff), and what you will do about it if he doesnt do something that will satisfy you both. like tell her dont be calling him baby, dont call too much, and respect his girlfriend by any means. and if he is not willing to that i would say there is a little stretch in truth about it being over. i been through this, where i told my guy to stop talkin to an ex, and it happened anyways, then i told her to stop talking to him and it still didnt stop! hmm. almost led to a bloody fight my friend! so work it out with him. "please do not include the ex!"
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reader, mari1021 +, writes (14 October 2008):
 honestly if they dated before you need to respect that and if hes cheating on you then why are you still with him? i went out with a guy for three years and we still occasionally talk were like bestfriends no we dont call eachother baby but well continue to be friends, i dont understand why you keep insulting her u sound insecure. talk to him ask him whats going on but dont insult that makes you look super insecure and if hes still with her leave him
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