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*gl777
writes:I've been on a couple dates with a guy i really like, and have known him for a month now. We have a great time when we see each other. He has told me he liked me before. I just dont know how long i should wait until i call or text him. I dont want to seem like im not interested by not calling or texting because i am interested. I havn't spoken to him in 3 days, he hasn't called or text. Is that a long time or am I over reacting? I dont want to call or text him first and seem like im too needy. Should i wait or will he think im not interested? I guess my main question is, should a woman text/call or should she wait until the man contacts her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): no do not text him let him text you
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 He still hasn't contacted you yet?
Did you try txting him?
C xxxx
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reader, ggl777 +, writes (21 October 2008):
ggl777 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCould it be that maybe he is palying hard to get or doesnt want to see desperate??
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reader, Frank_Jr +, writes (14 October 2008):
If he is really into you he will always be keeping an open line of communication. 3 days tells me he is either really busy, not that into you, or found some other girl.
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (14 October 2008):
I dont think its just the guys responsibilty. Call him and say hey i was about to go do blank and i wanted to know if you wanted to come. If he says he cant then say ok if you change your mind give me a call and then go do whatever it is you planned.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (14 October 2008):
Always a dillema, but I wouldn't get too hung up on seeming needy. 3 days is plenty of time to pass since talking. Wont come across as needy if you bung him a txt.
Go for it. I dont think guys should have to do all the chasing these days.
C xxxxx
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