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writes:Hello, this message will probably end up pretty long so if you do end up reading it. I thank-you alot. Here goes..So I went to Spain in July with a few mates, we went by coach which took like a day. There was a big family infront of us on the coach, and the one daughter is THE most amazing thing I've ever seen. Literally from the first moment I saw her I haven't been the same since. I couldn't stop thinking about her or anything. So it happened we were staying at the same hotel aswell so that was a bonus. I knew I had to try and talk to her because I'd regret it alot if I didn't. It took me a few days to pluck up the courage. We were leaving a few days before them so I had to. On our last day we were there, I got up early for breakfast to tr yand find her. She was at breakfast but I chickened out. I ran into her mother about half an hour later saying that her daughter had recognised that I was at breakfast, so that was a bonus. Later on, me and two mates were sitting outside the hotel and she walked out on her own and smiled at me and sat near me so I figured she wanted me to go and talk to her so I did. It was very brief as she had to go out for the day with her family. In the night we were all playing pool and she came and sat infront of us playing with her mates. I spoke to her again for a bit then her mum asked her to go upstairs to get something. She didn't come back down and it was like 11:30 now so I was really getting worried. one of her sisters walked past and I asked her if she knew where **** was (**** is the girl I wanted to talk to). She said that she was upstairs and if she wanted me to pass on a message. I just said "oh its okay, i just wanted to talk to her thats all." her sister went up and told her and came back down like 5 minutes later with **** phone number on saying "she cant come down right now, shes gotta look after her little brother but she told me to give you her number" so i was really chuffed. A bonus was also that she only lives like half an hour away from me. I went home the next day on the clouds. I rang her on the day that she was scheduled to come back but her mum answered saying she had fallen asleep and she'll give me a ring back tomorrow.I didnt get a call back. I've tried contacting her numerous times but failed. She's replied a few times recently and last night I rang her and she answered. we talked for a bit and she gave me her email. the convo was a bit awkward with those silences but atleast she answered. It was only awkward cause I hadn't spoke to her in a while. I have no idea if she is interested or what. Should I ask her if she wants to meet up sometime or what? Please reply on what you think I should do.Thanks alotToby
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reader, starfairy +, writes (12 October 2008):
 She's either not really interested or her parents are getting in the middle...
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