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writes:Long post but I really need help.You have to read this question:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-moved-on-and-i-am-still.html..before reading the current one you are reading.So i spoke to him yesterday for 2 hours! and I got all my answers..I regret everything and I just wish I could change things.He said 'I didn't know I had such a BIG impact on you, because you didn't know how to show it'I said 'I know, but seeing as it was my first time I didn't want to do anything stupid and I tried showing it but I didnt know how to'He said 'Because you didn't know how to show it, that was a disadvantage.. Because I didnt think you liked me so much and so I couldnt tell if I would be happy with you and so I had to stop myself from falling for you'I said 'I was shy and extremely nervous because of it being my first time'It then was just being repeated again and again, and we both realised it ended because of bad communication.However, his feelings have gone completely he told me he doesn't like what he used to like about me (but I'm still the SAME!).. and mine are still here.. They haven't decreased at all!I actually don't know what to do! Some people are saying he might like you a little.But he wouldv'e told me.. He's an upfront guy.Please helpx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): My advice is do what you can to get your mind off of him, act uninterested. From my years of dating, this usually works. Once he sees that you're not interested, he might start to become interested in you. It's weird, but this is how it seems to work sometimes. Best of luck!
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reader, cliis its me  +, writes (13 October 2008):
he lies if he says all his feelings are gone completely because his feelings might not be surfacing but theyre there its great that you took the time to talk to him ...
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