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writes:First off, I'm young, and honestly inexperienced when it comes to any of this. Yeah, I'm a virgin, and a guy, get over it. My partner, however, isn't. It bugs me, yeah, but I live with it. I have three questions, and any feedback is greatly appreciated:First off, I don't know what it is, jealousy, whatever you feel like calling it, but I think about the things my girlfriend says to me.. and for some reason, I can't help but think about how she's said similar things to another guy before. My question is: How the hell do I get over it?I'm happy with her, I love her, but when I'm by myself.. it's like the only thing I can think about, and I can't get myself to stop. How?My second question is this: I've been dating her for two months, we're just starting to get physical with things, perhaps about two weeks ago or so, and I can't get her to orgasm. We're not ready for sex yet, so all I have to work with is fingering, and I've come close, but she's.. 'afraid' of having an orgasm, or so she tells me. What can I do to get her more comfortable? She's never had an orgasm before, so I'm assuming she doesn't masturbate. And that leaves it up to me to figure out what she likes. But just when she's about to have an orgasm, she'll push me away, and we'll stop.Now, my third question. Sorry for the long post, by the way. The just recently had her period. We didn't do anything for that time period. And she's back to normal, but the other night, when I began to finger her, she complained about it burning. So I stopped. We waited till morning, and gave it another shot. I was properly cleaned, made sure my hands weren't dirty, etc., and it was fine, working well, ya know, until about a minute in, when she told me it still burns.I switched hands, tried different things, but everything seemed to give her a burning sensation. What the hell is up with that?
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ThatOneCroatian is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I'm definitely good on the past and all that now. She actually brought it up, and I'm good now, just needed that little reassurance, I guess.But now, i know full well how to get to business when it comes to fingering a girl. I'm not that new when it comes to that, and just pointing it out, I don't just 'pump in and out'. I use the G-Spot, all that good stuff, keep rythm, etc.And it's not irritation, I don't think. Because it starts to burn RIGHT when I insert a finger. She's tried to get me to continue, because she says it doesn't hurt that much, but I don't want to hurt her.
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