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writes:This may be a stupid question but when someone asks to give them some time to get their thoughts straight because there is too much emotional involvement and they cant handle it. Does it means good bye? Reply to this Question
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (12 October 2008):
hiyah i wouldnt jump straight to o its over just cause its a guy people think right its his way of ending it and yeah sometimes it seems the easy way out but i dont think this is always the case, guys find it hard to express how they feel and they need to sort it inside before the show it. its hard to hear because you cant exactally say any thing to it maybe he just needs time to get everything sorted, depending on your situation. You dont give the impression you want it to be good bye so if you think its worth holding on then wait for a bit and then talk. its hard and at the end of the day its completely up to you but dont let go on what you 'think it might be' you could be wrong and then youve let something good go- hope this helps best of luck x :)
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reader, babomi  +, writes (12 October 2008):
 that s how you should take it, for your own good
we re talking about people who are backing off because they feel it s too much for them, for whatever reason, so, why should they come back to the same situation afterwards?
unless you re the last 2 people living on earth with no other alternative, it does not really make sense, does it?
don t wait for him, consider it over and done
sorry to tell you this
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