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anonymous
writes:I am 30 years old and I feel as though there are no girls interested in me....there will be girls that say im handsom but are they just being nice...or do they mean it....I feel ugly sometimes from my acne scars....why do girls seem not interested they look away?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008): women find scarring on men particularly facial scarring very attractive. Numerous big stars out there have acne scarring and this doesn't put women off. Women are attracted to a man's self confidence, physique and charm in the main. However I do understand that scarring can undermine your confidence as I have a lot of scars myself. The best thing to do is go and see a dermatologist and ask about microdermabrasion and a heavy duty chemical peel - only a doctor can do a very strong chemical peel. I have had microdermabrasion which did hurt but the results are fantastic. I had one area near my mouth which was very pockmarked and now you can hardly see them at all - really only I know that the skin isn't perfect there. It also makes you look years younger! A british soap actor who was very heavily pitted and scarred had it done recently and now his skin is really smooth. If like me this damaged and knocked your confidence definitely consider having this done. It will make a difference although with men women like I said are not put off by scars it is all a personality thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008): You should look for solutions for the scarring. Moreso for your own self esteem than for the girls. There are options out there from chemical peels, microdermabrasion etc, go to a dermatologist and get some help. You do not have to live with it.
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