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writes:There's a guy I really like and I've liked him since I met him in the summer.He is often in my country but a lot of the time he's at uni in England.We text eachother every day for a few hours and we talk on msn all night. We're really flirty and romantic in the messages we send.He says he's coming over in a few weeks.Problem is, I'm waiting for him to make the move to say we should go out, but he doesn't. He hints at things, but never actually asks me... is he waiting for me to ask him?On MSN we talked about watching a movie together and he said " yeah it'd be a good opportunity to get to know each other a bit more" Does this mean that he wants to be with me but won't ask me yet bcoz he's not over in my country?Or is he just messin me about?I really really like him but scared to ask him whether we should move things forward in case I get rejected.Any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks very much for the advice.
I'm gonna keep chatting to him through texts and msn and then wait till he comes over to talk to him I think. I'd rather speak to him face to face about this.
I will update you both once he's come over.
Thanks again
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reader, fishnchips  +, writes (11 October 2008):
its probably best to talk this through with him when he comes over to watch the film, but dont ask him straight away but the chances are that he feels the same and has the same worries about rejection as you do.
hope it goes well for you
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reader, gembo +, writes (10 October 2008):
In my opinion he's probably thinking the same thing about you so if it was me i would just ask ask him out straight away because if you dont your never going to find out weather he feels the same about you.So here's what i suggest ask him to meet up with you for a drink then as the night goes on and your feeling abit more convident then i suggest you ask him there and then or if you feel abit unsure about it then throw hints in a suttle way that's my best advice. I hope it works and write back to let us know if it worked.
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