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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm stuck in the "what if" kind of situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi, to be honest i'm not really sure why i am writing this. I dont know if i want help or if i just want to get things off my chest. The thing is i met a boy when i was on holiday when i was nine, we clicked straight away. After the holiday we kept ...

Shes chasing me but she has a boyfriend and I feel guilty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Well im in a bit of a predicament you see, It all started about 2 weeks ago at a friends party where i started speaking to a friends friend and we swapped phone numbers and began texting (well she texts me everyday) but i found out she has a ...

When I'm drunk I get violent

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we live together and we're very happy, but when i go out and get drunk i am violent towards him. I dont know why, im not at all like that when soba and there is nothing wrong with us. He has stuck by me and ...

Have a baby with my guy or wait for someone better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Just a quickie Im 36 and in a relationship that I'm very unsure of. My boyfriend of 2 yrs can be sulky and childish and is never wrong. He wants us to have a child and I really want to start a family more than anything. He wont ever change an...

Am I in over my head or should I see what the future holds?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I am wondering about my relationship. I am 31 years old in a very serious relationship with a 36 year old man that has 4 kids. One of his kids is by my distance cousin. He tells me he loves me and even gave me a ring for Christmas but I have this ...

Why does he want to be 'just friends'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for 28 days. We were soo happy together. He would text me all day the 1st coupe of weeks and he'd make me every morning with a 'good morning baby!' and it was so nice. The on the 18th I was with him and some girl popped u...

Does this make sense to anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - WOW. It's finally happened for me and my man. At last we have connected. He final found away through. Here is how it happened. He told me he could no longer continue in the realtionship because I had no heart to give. We had a massive row but ...

This guy keeps giving me mixed signals!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - im confused? a few months ago I was having funny broody feelings you know the feelings a women gets when ever she sees a baby.my boyfriend picked up on this and made it clear that he does not want a child. but last week when we were out shopping, he ...

Is my boyfriend gay and just not admitting it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) - Is my Boyfriend Gay? Okay so my boyfriend and I have slept together (when I say slept togetehr I mean beside each other NOT sex). He's spent the night at my house about 3 times and we've been in the same bed. I dont wear a bra to sleep in. He'...

I have strong will power but around him, I just melt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Okay well, this is my first post on this site and I really need some advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I'm going to sound like a horrible person, and I guess I am on some level, but I can't stop. Here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for...

14 and worried about getting pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im ...

Why does he still have his ex wife's number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Is it normal for a guy which has been devoiced for 2 years now to still have his ex wife's number on his cellphone, just not under any contact name but 'sweetheart', she left the county to marry another guy. we have been dating for 7 months now, i ...

Has anyone stayed with a guy who finds sex painful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we have not had sex and I can count on one hand the number of times I have had success in giving him a hand job. When I try to give him oral sex he prefers me to just use my hand. I find that ...

Why is it so hard for him to tell his ex that he met someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm a little concerned with my relationship. My BF of 6 months is recently divorced and we met while he was waiting for it to be final. He still hasn't introduced me to his friends because his ex is friends with them too and I also haven't met his ...

What to do to see my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have told my dad that my crush and i are going out. He was happy for me. I convinced him to let me go to his house, thought he cant take the decision alone. My parents are separated and have different point of views.Im afraid my mom wont let me ...

Do you believe in trusting gut instincts? I predict an affair!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I went to see his long lost sister who brought one of her friends, let's call her susan (who is married and has kids), but I couldn't help but get this feeling that something will happen between my boyfriend and this Susan. I have ...

Going to visit ex--good sign right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have an update on my situation. If you remember my ex boyfriend dumped me, then got back in touch before he went travelling, we had sex and declared our feelings, then he went. I was all over the place. He said I could go visit him but I wasn't ...

Missed pills... can she be pregnant???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has been on the pill for 2 years. Two weekends ago we went on vacation and she forgot her pills, so she didn't take them for 3 days. During those 3 days we didn't use condoms but I tried my best to pull out before ejaculating (a ...

I'd like to get him to take the first steps. How can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hey, I've got a problem and are looking for a solution. Maybe here I can get some help? I had a wonderful relationship but all of a sudden my partner became weird, didn't talk as openly to me as he did before, started to draw back. Then he broke up...

My mum wants to rule my life and ruin my relationship, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I really love my boyfriend, we have been in the relationship for 3 months, my mum found out that me and him have been having oral sex. And now she keeps trying to split us up. About a month ago she ordered me to dump him but I just couldn't do it. ...

I really am in my 30's and don't know anything about kissing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I was woundering is it strange to never have experencd a kiss of any of descrption at 35 years old. I never had a bofriend, always had problems getting one because I am very quiet and shy and innocent. How do I get a kiss me when they don't ...

Crazy girl is making me Crazy too. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Am in love with this girl or am I just crazy? I suppose I'll begin at the start, because more than likely, answer-ers ask for more detail. Let's call her 'C' for short. It all started freshman year. Me and C never knew each other existed fo...

Has my mental illness pushed him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Me and my partner have been together over a year now. We have both deeply been in love for the whole of the time but have had a bumpy ride. I developed high anxiety at the beginning of the year when I was with him. This has mean't he has been taken ...

I feel like I'm the one leading the realtionship all the time...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - How can i get my boyfriend to be more assertive? we just started dating, but i feel like im the one leading the relationship, which im not against but i just dont want to be ALL the time. what can i do about this?...

Do you think he is really into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I met this guy a couple of months ago. We started seeing each other a little over a month ago. I've spent the weekend at his house 3 times. The first weekend we hung out with his best friend, but we also did things by ourselves. Christmas day, I ...

We can't live without eachother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - hello, i have been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now and we are very deeply in love, if we could be together all the time there would be no frustration no fights nothing (there hardly is anyway). i am 19 and she is almost 17 it is legal ...

Does he reallly love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i'm 16 years old and my friend is 17... we use to go out for about 6 years... but since we broke up our relationship has been on and off. we stopped talking for about 6 months. i decided to call him again and see what happened between us becuase i ...

Two guys who want to date me! I'm really confused...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) - I have two really great guys that both want me to date them. Guy number one is my ex. I broke up with him because my mother hates him, he was really jealous from time to time, and I was worried I couldn't stop myself from having sex with him. I ...

Do guys like innocent girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So I am 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Everyone tells me that I'm gorgeous and guys tend to be really timid and nervous around me. I'm also pretty quiet, so I would never confess to anyone (tried that and it backfired on me) lol but I ...

The more we have sex the tighter it gets...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So, my boyfriend and I very much enjoy sex. But it becomes a problem that the more we have sex, the tighter, yes tighter my pussy gets. I don't know what to do, but it almost gets painful, which isnt a really big problem, considering he loves it ...

What's wrong with him? I think there's a lot more to being committed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Please don't say break up with him and nothing else. I might break up but what to talk to him about these things. I want to know what to say to my bf about this stuff. I've had a bf for a couple of years. He said he is committed to me becau...

How can I stop being so insecure about all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Okay this is my first question on this site and its kind of a simple question but requires a lot of background. So here goes: About 5 and a half years ago I started dating this guy. We were both real young at the time and he is my best friends ...

What can I do about his controlling, manipulative ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm so unhappy. I'm losing my boyfriend and feel I have to give up on him. I don't want to. I've tried to be there, stick it out and cope with the awfulness we have had from the Mother of his child, but I can't. Basically his life is being ...

I love him but I feel it's all one-sided!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So I have this guy for almost 3 years. I love him very much, but it seems like he does not feel the same. I have caught him lying to me count less times, and have even checked hi emails and myspace (tho i know its completely wrong) because ...

I found a condom in his computer bag. How do I ask him about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have been living with this man for over a year and a half now...we have several animals together..I have met, and have a relationship with his family and friends...It seems to me that we are taking steps to lenghthen our future together...BUT..he ...

Straight girl fancies her gay male friend....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm a straight girl who fancies her male gay best friend. I've known him for 3 months and he told me he was gay from the start. We clicked from the start and we have great chemistry. Initially I tried to set him up with dates with some other gay ...

Is once a cheat always a cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i have had a gut feeling for a while that my boyfrend was seeing someone else so yesterday (and i know its wrong)i went through his mobile phone to see if i could find any evidence on there. there were picture texts from a girl showing just her ...

He lied about wearing a condom and now wants me to forgive him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Ok this guy and I have been seeing each other for the past three months. We talk everday.. all day off and on. Things were really going good so I thought. This past weekend I went to his house after we had a few drinks. This would be the third time ...

What do I do? My boyfriend will leave to go into the military...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - where do i begin exactly!lol im 16 turning 17 and i have a rather amazing boyfriend who's 18 of whom i very much love with all of my heart :)we are verry close but however live a good few hours away from each other but have a stable and consistant ...

Weird after I love you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Hey all, just looking for a bit of advice and help to understand my girlfriend really, sorry if it's long. Anyways I met this girl at uni, start of September and we hit it off straight away she really is spot on and we have so much fun togethe...

What do I have to do so he realizes that she is not meant for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So the first day of class this semester, i got my eye on this one really cute guy. I guess he noticed, because that weekend he started texting me. He got my number from one of his friends that i was good friends with. We texted that whole weekend, ...

Keeping it in the family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hey Cupids... Basically i'm with a my new boyfriend about 5 months or so. It's lovely. Initially it was a light hearted sort of affair, but now we're very into each other and it's great and as each day goes by i love him a little bit more, and i ...

I'm worried sick out of my mind and don't know who to get help from.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My partner has been lying about going to work, says he had bad nerves we were fighting, he hates the fact my teenage son leaves his room a mess we got over that. He then stayed, said he loved me etc, i tried calling him all day no reply then i ...

My friend likes my girlfriend and she likes him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I'm with this girl there for the past 6 weeks and for the past 2 days things haven't been going that good!! she likes my friend and my friend likes her too! They were supposed to meet each other before we got with each other but it never hapened! ...

His parents don't like us dating...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I am in love with this boy that I been knowing since high school. it took me some time to finally notice him because I was in a relationship with someone else. now that I'm available I really feeling him and I know he loves me too. we've been in a ...

I'm sick of being alone in his house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi Right so my bf and i have been dating for six months at first everything was great, until I moved to a different town for him and in with him, first night he didn't come home, he made some story up and three months later I found out the ni...

Should I stay with my girlfriend or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year now, at the start of the relationship everything was great, and about 6 months into the relationship, she cheated on me with her ex, he was her first love and she says shes needed ...

We had an argument and now he's not talking to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 13 months then on christmas day we had an argument and now he is mad at me nor talking to me. When we were arguing I pushed him in is head and he told me not to call him and he won't call me or answer my ...