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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm having an emotional affair with a married guy, I want to forget him and a player who's after me, what do I do?

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4 December 2008 (F) - Ok, I´m in love with a guy who ended up being married. We are having an almost emotional affair, since he´s long distance. I did not want to fall in love with him, but I did so that´s my misery. I´ve tried so hard to get him out of my heart and ...

She told me she would frequently hook up with her girlfriends and fool around with other guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - Alright, well earlier today my girlfriend told me something that has been eating at me a fair bit. We only started dating about a month ago, and for close to a year before that she wasn't seeing any guys, wasn't interested in seeing guys, etc...

My PC is full of pictures of me and my girlfriend... now she's dumped me and I feel so alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - I'm really depressed and upset. My girlfriend of 3 years, whom I met at college, dumped me a few weeks ago saying she wanted to be on her own. We met in college in our final years and although I fancied her I didn't make a move because I was go...

I'm not sure if he likes me and I don't want anyone to know that I like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Well I think this boy likes me and I like him too. When ever I get on the bus he laughs at me and jokes around with me, like poking me and that. I see him like every day at school and in the mornings and after school as he gets the same bus as me, ...

I want to ask her out, but she's so gorgeous and I don't look good.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - Halo,i got lots of problem. Pls i need advice. i am 19, i have been always single till now. I am a little bit introverted, the shy type . Not so easy wid girls specially. But once i get friendly, i am mixed wid them. da problem is, now i love a ...

I always have to have a boyfriend because I'm lonely and unloved if I don't.q

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Hi, yeah I'm pretty young and I have this huge problem that affects me a lot and I need some help. I guess you could say that I always have to have a boyfriend because I'm lonely without one and I just don't feel loved. But the thing is...I haven't ...

Does it sound like my boyfriend is still in love with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Me n my bf have been going out for nearly three months and one of his past ex's did some horrible things to him when he eas with her. Earlier today he was out with her and did not tell me till about an hour ago. She cheated on him 5 times and dump...

How do I turn the tables on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend seems to have control of everything in our relationship. yes I do realize its because I've allowed him to but now its is like I don't even know myself anymore... how can I fix this? I can I show him that I'm strong and that I'm not ...

How do I attract a boyfriend before I get any older and lonelier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - hi how do i get a boyfreind when you overweight and shy and very low self estreem.but i am always getting by the guys the likes who always some one elea but never me.i am 30 yaers old,never had boyfreind once in my life and never even experenc...

He proposed, that we break off the engagement and he move out. But that we still continue dating!!

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4 December 2008 (F) - I'm at a real loss here -- My fiance' and boyfriend of the past 6 years has said he'd like to break off our wedding. We currently live together, and have for the majority of our 6 year relationship. Last December, seemed like the make or break mo...

Is love a one shot deal? I feel like I'm losing him and there's nothing I can do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, the first year of our relationship was rocky to say the least as he had something traumatic occur in his life that consequently made him unable to be close to anyone and he kind of just blocked me ...

How do I bring balance to this relationship and this girl I so love and adore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - Gawd...can someone give me some decent advice? I'm 35 and am seeing this beautiful girl that I absolutely love and adore. We've been seeing eachother for almost a year and we've had a lot of ups and downs, primarily arguing about stupid stuff. ...

Should I spend Christmas Day with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Hello, I hope you can help. This sounds like a trivial dilemma but I have no one else to ask and I can't stop thinking about it. It has veen been waking me at night. My boyfriend and I decided to spend Christmas day together about 2 months ago. It ...

Oh my dear geeky man, please respond!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - It is slightly embarrassing for me to admit that we met online, on Craigslist. He asked for a strictly platonic activities partner, I answered. Well, in the end, due to scheduling differences we only went to the activity once. But he tu...

How do I let her know that I'm diggin' her as way more than a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - I've known my best chick friend for 8 yrs now (since sophomore year in college) and I'm completely in love with her! I've never had much luck with the ladies (didn't even start dating til sophomore year of college) but this is one lady I want that ...

If you were told that today is the last day of your life... what would you do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, I wanna plan the most amazing romantic night for me and my ex... we love each other so much, but life has torn us both apart, this is your last night together and I want it to be perfect, so I want to take some of your ideas of the ...

Is it worth ringing him??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Is it worth ringing him? Any advice would be appreciated! - I'm in love with a guy who definitely is in control of our relationship! - He only rings when he can or it's convenient for him, he only sees me when he is available to do so and he onl...

Taking it slow is nice, but this snails pace is TOO slow!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a little while now and i really love him and i know he loves me. He's had sex with two girls before and so is determind to take thing really slowly with me but i dont want him to be taking it this slowly.Ive tried ...

His motto is enjoy them and then forget them.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Hello everybody. I am 20 years old Indian girl. I have a frnd here in canada. He clearly says that he just wants to have fun. He want to have sex without any attachment. He says I have slept with many girls but you are different from all of them. He ...

I have been burned so many times I am afraid to open up my heart

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4 December 2008 (F) - I have been in and outside relationships where my life was shut dow and heart broken into pieces by men.i have been ued as sex object for the long time.two men i thought would be my husband have just lost me like hot potatoes few days after they had ...

After how badly she treated me should I take her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - So, this all starts a little over a year ago. I met this cute girl and I began talking to her, and getting to know her. We connected instantly, and became good friends. I asked her out, she accepted. Then we dated for about 10 months. I had fallen ...

We've only just started dating and now her ex wants her back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - I'm a bit down and need some help. Two weeks ago I started chatting to a women who I met on an online dating site, we have been talking every day and night since. I have seen her three times in total, the last time I met her was Tuesday night, w...

Do I have a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - I've met this girl on the first week of our semester. Everyday, when we're at the school, she really caughts my attention. She's a simple girl, my ideal girl. As time pass by, we had a chance to talk with each other, have a lunch together and etc. ...

Does he really love me or am I just wasting my time with him?

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4 December 2008 (F) - Please guys help me,am in a relationship for o ne year and 3 months am 24 and he is 28.the time we started we were in the same town and later i move to another town with work and i go evry weekend for classes to his town.may problem with this guy is ...

Is he really 'into' me or is he just testing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I know this guy from Facebook. At first we just chat via emailing. But later, we exchange phone number. We are having a good conversation. We flirt at each other through phone messaging. He the one always hurried to meet each other. But I always ...

Respect, loyalty, kindness - a recipe for a life of loneliness?

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4 December 2008 (M) - I'm caring, friendly, loyal and intelligent. I'm also told I have a good sense of humour and charisma. Unfortunately the major thing I lack is confidence. The last girl I was interested in, I spent a lot of time chatting and getting to know ...

Things have got bad with my girlfriend, and I'm beginning to have feelings for another girl! Advise, please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and things have been ok but recentley things have got bad and its argument after argument. I have a good friend who is female and I have been going out with a lot recentley but I am begining to feel as ...

Is he seeing someone else? Should I just forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - hi there l need help. l don't know if my boyfriend is seeing somebody else we have been dating for 2 months sometimes he doesn't call for say 3 days and then after that he calls saying he misses me.we meet and everything is normal but yest...

Is it okay for me to eat meat in front of my vegan girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

4 December 2008 (?) - I just found out that a girl I recently started dating is a vegan. She doesn't eat dairy (like cheese) and nothing from animals. I mean eat meat almost everyday. Is it ok for me to eat meat in front of her? ...

To stay friends, or risk the friendship for something else?

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4 December 2008 (M) - Hello aunts, I'm looking for advice as to a very strange situation for me. Question is at the very bottom, but I really feel that a story is needed to highlight why this warrants anonymous help. I'm 17, go to an international school in Britain....

I want to date him but I'm not sure how to proceed! Is he a rapist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I hooked-up with a guy when I was 20 but he had some sex issues. We messed around tons, but he couldn't get it up. I told my friend (who thought he was hot) and she had sex with him. She claimed that he basiclly raped her. I believed her but was ...

Is he thinking of proposing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for technically a year now. We have been really close friends, best friends, for over 6 years and have been in college during this time. He is getting ready to graduate this fall and I graduate next spring. I have dated a ...

He told me that if I ever talk to him again, he is going to call the police.

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4 December 2008 (F) - I've asked this question before, but didn't go into a lot of detail. So here is my situation... I've liked this guy for 5 years now. Anywhoo, I knew him from high school. (back in the day) We knew of each other, but never spoken. Until.....

Should I confess my love even though it would stress her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - Well i have been waiting to ask this for some time but i was trying to decide on my own, but this decision is very important and i need to make the right one. Well there is a girl i have known since kindergarten but i was never really close to ...

Does this mean that he likes me or am I crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I just moved in with a room-mate of mine and her friend used to come over every once in a while. Since I moved in he's been coming over regularly. Does this mean that he likes me or am I crazy?...

Idealy, how long should I wait to have sex with this guy?

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4 December 2008 (F) - Ive been split from my ex hubby for over a year now. I have dated a few guys but nothing special has happened, although I have been messed around a bit and have at times felt used :-( Anyhow, i have just started seeing this new guy. We are both in ...

The girl I loved betrayed me and now I'm lost. How do I move on?

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4 December 2008 (M) - I got out of a 1 1/2 year relationship 3 months ago and I feel like crap. My ex told me she fell in love with someone else she worked with and didn't love me anymore, and she hid this from me for a couple months prior to our split. This was ...

My friend is spreading rumors about me, what should I do??

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4 December 2008 (F) - I have this friend who is really mad at me right now. It all started last year when she was datin this guy. they only went out for a week and then she broke up with him. She says she broke up with him because he was a year younger and people were ...

What does a guy do in my position???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - Ok, picture this: Guy JUST breaks up with controlling girlfriend, guy goes out to a party that same night, meets new girl, someone he feels he gets along better with than previous girlfriend. As they're talking and look like they're getting re...

Love is found at the strangest times, I need help....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - OK People this is deep and I need help. This will be made into a Novel one day, so don't be surprised. I am 37 years old, I have had more than my share of realtionships, both good and bad. But this one has me going in a whole different state I ...

True love at 18?

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4 December 2008 (?) - have read, quite a few times on here, about wanting to find true love at such a young age (or feeling someone had met 'the one' and thus didn't want the relationship to end despite the fact something is going wrong etc etc...) and therefore I felt ...

I want an amazing first kiss... so how do I do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Hey everyone this is my problem. I'm 16 and have never been kissed. There's this guy I like and may go out with soon, and I'm so ready for a boyfriend. But I don't really know how to kiss. I and want an amazing first kiss. any advice?...

My boyfriend is a mess socially - how can he get through the festive season?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Well, i'm dreading christmas with my family and my great boyfriend of 2 years, because he is so bad socially. i come from a large family and i am talkative, self-confident, a little loud and i can talk to anybody any place any time. i get on with ...

Was I wrong when I said what I said? How can I fix things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - H, i'm in a kinda weird situation and i need ur opinion on what i should do. we've been friends since high school and now we go to the same college. we kinda have a good thing going on for us. we kissed one time and we've been hanging out lots. we ...

My BFF likes him too, should I just forget about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - So the guy i like is amazing you could even call him a rare package (yes i know i'll probably meet more who i think the same of, but this is the one right now). I think that he likes me too because he's always trying to show affection to me by ...