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Archived questions from: 13 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

After 4 years my boyfriend doesn't seem to care anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - Hello! My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. I love him so incredibly much and I know he loves me also; however, he has admitted to me that he loses interest in me(both sexually and I guess relationship wise), he nevers wants to ...

How can I attract an older classy man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - how would a girl attract a sexy ,older,well dressed,educated man with good manners,hansome looking guy,who is real gentleman,the fact i am sick of jerks,shallow guys.and guys who pretend to be gentleman and have manners so they cal score fools ...

I can't trust my girlfriend when she starts drinking!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - last night my girlfriend went out drinking in NYC where we live with her best friend. i was out of town. believe it or not, in our 15 month relationship last night was the first time she's gone out to a bar without me. i was worried about wh...

Could she be pregnant, without missing her period for two months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend thinks she may be pregnant. She is 11 days late. But she SAYS the last time seh had sex was 2 months ago. Is it possible that she has been pregnant for two months and is just missing her period now? p.s. only been with her one week...

My girlfriend, who I love, has an anxiety disorder, and is ungoing therapy, it's affecting me, should I remain with her?

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13 December 2008 (M) - hi, i'm in a long term relationship with my gf and things haven't been great for a while now. the spark has gone out of the relationship for a while and it just seemed to me that because she is a very anxious type of girl that things like our social ...

Does he really care, or is it just lust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - If a guy gets hard almost every time he spends time with you and hugs you, does it mean that he's only driven by lust? I have known this guy for over a year, and we have only recently started touching, I haven't kissed him yet, but will soon. ...

How should I ask a married woman out on a date?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2782 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - Hi. I was just wondering what's the best way to ask a married woman at work out on a date. By just asking her whether she wants to go for a drink sounds too casual and disrespectful to me - especially since I've had working relations with her for ...

How can I talk to him without being too forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - Im 25 and came out of a 5 year relationship 6 months ago. I am now ready to start dating again and there is one particular guy Ive got my eye on but I think he is shy and I have no idea how I can let him know that I like him without freaking him ...

Should I stop worrying about his ex?

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13 December 2008 (F) - Sorry in advance if this is long. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months now and its going well, I love spending time with him and can easily see myself falling for him. The trouble is, i'm really insecure about his ex. He broke up with...

Should I ask my married lover to leave his family for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - I'm 41yrs old and single. I have been seeing a married man 55yrs. We had been friends for about a year when one day he asked me if we could just have sex. He said that he was lonely he had no companionship with his wife anymore. I was lonele too I'd ...

He likes me but he doesn't love me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is a wonderful man who I have been seeing for 10 months now. I know it's not that long but I have really fallen for him but he doesn't love me. I have known him for almost 2 years and we started out as friends. I started to feel ...

I'm worried because I'm dating a playboy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - Hi im 19 yrs of age. I've been liking this guy since 2 n a half years..he was then going out with another girl with whom he was pretty serious due to some reasons they broke off later.. During their relation itself he used to flirt n show interest ...

We Hang out, he's Hot and Cold, Any Flirting Tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - I am going shopping soon with a guy ive liked for a long time.. we are best friends but he always blows hot and cold on me..we dnt text, then we do.. he goes with other girls and i go with other guys but he always flirts with me and says im amazing ...

I Can't Be Intimate With Boyfriend, But So Much Going On In My Life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up after over a year together. We spent far too much time together and it just got too much for both of u, so we decided it was best to spend some time apart. Now, after 9 months, we have decided to give it another go - we ...

I Think My Boyfriend Likes My Clothes More Than Me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - Since I have an extremely feminine face and body, my boyfriend likes it when I wear girl clothes a lot; things like skirts and dresses. And I'm starting to get the feeling he's more attracted to the GIRL clothes then me. Should I be worried about ...

We are losing our feelings for each other but don't want to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - Hey there all. I've only recently stumbled upon this site and I find the community very approachable. So, here's my problem.. It's rather lengthy so please bare with me. Here's a background of our relationship. We are dating. It has been 7 month...

I think she only wants me on the weekends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - I have being in a relationship for the past 4 years with a separated woman that has 2 kids with her. We started as friends and hide our interests from her kids until about a year but I have also noticed that she prefer to spend time with her ...

I don't get any intimacy!

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13 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nine months... we love each other very much... however because of her last relationships she kinda feels uncomfortable being touched, so I only ever really get rare hugs and we've never kissed... ...

Do I send a birthday card?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - Hi, It's my Ex Girlfriends birthday next week. We were together 3 years and broke up in September this year, I still think about her every day and deep down I know I still love her, is it right for me to still give her a birthday card and write how ...

Am I really unsuitable for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - Hi! I'm dating this guy whom I've just met. He was so wonderful and humourous. Then, recently, his jokes went a bit far like he'd ask me if I feel horny.. I was offended and he laughed it off and said all his friends joke like that. I have thi...

Do I love him or is it just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - I have known this boy for 7years now and he asked me out on msn... i was thinking about it When he phoned me i went shy and then my legs went like jelly thursday he was talking to a girl and i went quiet and i felt pissed off with her my b...

How do I persuade my g/f to have a threesome

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - I really want my girl to have a threesome with me and another guy. im straight but i think it would be hot to watch her enjoying 2 men. how do i persuade her?...

Do I chose tall guy? Or short guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - OK, so I really LIKED this guy. LIKED, not LIKE, LIKED. We used to be best friends, then he asked me out, and it pretty much went flat. We're still going out but we don't even act it. My friend and I were talking, and she asked how long we were ...

He says he doesn't feel the same but he acts the same

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - so me and this guy had hit it off very fast. i never thought that i would be that comfortable with anyone that soon. this was in a matter of a week. we spent about two months together and we were so happy. then one day he tells me he doesn't feel ...

Can't find a girl to satify ALL of my needs!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - Oh man, please bear with me here. Ok 2 years ago I met a girl. She was beautiful and loved everything I loved, all the same interests. We went to a movie I asked her to date me she turned me down. No biggy we became best friends. Turns out she was ...

Does he like me or is it my imagination?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - hi, so i've started my new job about 3 months ago.immediately i noticed the guy that works in a different department than i do, i think he noticed me at first too but i am a very shy person(but only around people i dont know), so he would never ...

Cuddling and tickling do all guys do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - I have cuddled with lots of guys and they all seem to tickle/rub my arm whilst doing so. Do guys like this or is it just something to do?...

I don't know how to make out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - Ok i have a problem... its not a very big problem but it concerns me. my girlfriend knows how to make out she learned from making out with girls but that is not the problem, the problem is that i dont know how to make out and she does and we both ...

I don't know if I'm straight or bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - The thing is, I am straight, but I often catch myself looking at girls and noticing how pretty they are. I never fantasize over kissing them, or having sex, or anything like that. As i read, some one says we are naturally attracted to one sex or ...

I don't know if he cares

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend and i dont know if he really cares about me.he dosent call me like i want to,most times i itch 2 see him but it's not like that for him but he said he loves me.it's just a 2 months old relationship.should i still hope or back ...

Having flashbacks of another guy but I have a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - Hey. Im just wondering. a few months ago i got close to someone and felt comfortable on our own. we kissed one night. then it went wrong and we both moved on , but the other day i was walking home and everywhere i went i got flashback of eve...

Torn between 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - hi everybody... im 13 years old and in need of advice. okay, so i went out with this guy for 2 1/2 months. yesterday i broke up with him for 2 reasons: 1. i decided i didnt like him anymore and 2. theres this other guy that i started to like....

He has commitment issues! Is it hopeless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - What should you do if you think the guy you are dating has commitment issues? Is it something that could be resolved on its own? Is therapy needed or is the guy just plain hopeless? Thanks for the replies!!...

I want to ask her out but don't want to be too eager

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - hi all not been on for a while just need a bit of advice recently split up will my girlfriend again tho this time for good as we just couldnt settle ended in early november but recently started talkin to a friend who i tryed to date bef...

Why can't people see that he is a jerk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - I posted on here about my ex bf and me. We were together for nearly three years and he lied and cheated the whole time. We broke up last year and for one year he led me on, ultimately saying he only wanted to be friends. He behaved in a very ...