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Archived questions from: 20 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I tell her I love her or should I just keep my feelings sealed away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - Hi I really need some help. Im 17, male from newcastle, and for the past year and a half I have been playing online gaming. About a year ago I started talking to a girl online, we immediately clicked and became good friends, recently though I think ...

I got so turned on when I found my boyfriend pleasuring himself with my dildo. Am I weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Last week I caught my boyfriend pleasuring himself with my dildo... I'll leave it up to you to imagine where, but oddly, it really turned me on and we had the most amazing sex I'd ever had. Is it weird that I got turned on by this?...

Girlfriend or the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - I need help, I'm stuck between my girlfriend and my ex. Me and my girlfriend have been arguing non stop for months on end and its just getting worse and worse but i still love her a bit, but me and my ex have been talking recently and she said ...

If he becomes a surgeon will this make him more prone to cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - I have read that "high profile" careers make men more prone to cheat and 31% do compared to 21% that cheat that make 25 grand or lower a year. I met my boyfriend through my best friend over the phone. She and I have been friends all my life and she ...

He's having an emotional affair with an old fling!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years. In the beginning everything was great. Then I find out that he was having somewhat of an emotional affair with a past "fling" (3 hour phone calls, text messages) a year and a half into the ...

Why did he say he would call and now he hasn't? Do all guys do this? WHY?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Alright I know this question is like the ultimate girl question that gets asked all the time Why doesn't he call back?!?! except this time its not after the first date, just being niceness, at this point, we had hung out every weekend at ...

What happened when he went to the bathroom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - What does it mean when a man spends an excessive time in the bathroom on a first date. There was definetly an attraction and flirting was exchanged. He suggested we go back to my place but then changed his mind when he came back from the ...

If I could back in a time machine..I cheated on my girlfriend and I'm sick

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - You never really know what you got till its gone....and its soo true. Here's my story, I started dating this girl named Amanda in high school I was 18 and she was sixteen. It started out as a typical teen relationship however I just got out of an 8 ...

My boyfriend loves sleep more than me!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Hello all, I'm in such a deliemma with my boyfriend, I always feel like he cares more about himself that he des me. When we have sex, we dont really do much foreplay, well thats to say its not returned. I do things to him but he wont do anything ...

After our break up we slept together again, she told me she had sex with 2 of my friends. How do I get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend said we were broke up. She still told me she loved me and still had sex with me then she told me she had sex with 2 people that were supposed to be my friends. How am I supposed to get over that. She also got back with me before ...

I just got my tongue pierced. How can I pleasure my boyfriend without using my mouth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - I just got my tongue pierced. How can I pleasure my boyfriend without using my mouth? What sex positions would be really pleasurable to him?...

I want to do something special for him on our first anniversary...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend will be going out for a year on january 3rd. I want to do something special for him, but he's grounded so he can't leave his house. That means I'll only see him in school. I thought it would be a bad idea to buy him a present ...

What's wrong with my way of thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - Why do people have relationships if there is no intention of marriage? I'm 22 and I've had 2 girlfriends in my life which I know is a little pathetic (or at least my friends think it is), but I knew both those girls before we started dating a...

I'm looking for advice on how to let him know that I'm interested or keen without being too forward!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - hi I have a second date with a guy I really like and I'm hoping that things will progress into a relationship!I'm looking for advice on how to let him know that I'm interested or keen without being too forward! I'm not into playing mind gam...

Will this break her hymen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - Me and my gf went to a movie today, we were seated to the corner seats, taking advantage of the less crowded theatre and started to kiss and touch each other. Later on I put my hand inside her pants and started to finger her vagina, no blood came ...

I don't want any forced commitment from him, only for him to acknowlege his child.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (?) - I am 26. I met this guy on the internet. We had a date. I asked him what type of relationship he wanted from me. He said he wants an affair that he is dedicated to his work and have no time for serious relationship. I decided to go on with him h...

I don't know which one is stronger, my head or my heart, how can I get over this teacher crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - I'm so tired of being in love with this guy, that i can't have. I thought i would get over him soon, because it'll never work out...but yet, im still sitten here, love sick, and tired of it. I need help! I don't know how to get over him. Here's ...

Anyone know anything about getting approval to come to the US from Phillipines?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - i have bf in california, and he wants me to come there from the philippines,what should i do? How easy will it be that he can get me in the philippines,and how long will it take to get the papers to fixed or approval? ...

Rejection stories wanted please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - hi any one tell me there experiences of rejection so i wont feel like the only who has rejected million times in row. my experience of rejections leaves me thinking that all guys in the world are jerks for some reason or another. i feel very lef...

What would you do if your boyfriend had an arm fetish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - ladies got some questions for you. sorry about length thanks in advance (Ladies only please) 1. do you have a lot of hair on your arms? 2. what color of hair do you have on your arms? 3. can you see your arm hair when your arm is wet? 4. how does...

I'm losing that loving feeling!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - hey im scared that i have stopped feeling for this guy fancy my ex i woke up this morning and i thought of him (like every morning) and i didnt get that buddley feeling in my belly and i put are song on , put my headphones in my ears , cuddled ...

I'm very ticklish, any way to get over this so I can enjoy his touches?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been trying to do things the past couple of weekends. I am a virgin so I really know nothing, him on the other hand is not. I would still like to remain a virgin but I will let him do other things to me. The thing I have a p...

Where can I, a really normal guy, meet someone of outstanding character in a most abnormal city?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - Uhh, help. Please. I go to a college which has a 19:1 male to female ratio, yeah that's bad. The women that are here are all, well, corupt (that means averaging about 9-10 partners per month) and I want nothing to do with that (gross). So, ...

I get approached by men of all ages, it's getting weird, what's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Im 45 and single..Lately when I go any place I get approached by men of all ages (youngest 25) and I been told all kinds of lines to get me to go with them to have sex. Lines like "you are beautiful and seductive"" Tonight you are mine" " I saw your ...

I'm 25 and never had a date! Why do men never ask me out?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - What are you supposed to do if you're were an ugly duckling that grew up to be an ugly duck instead of a swan? I am a 25 year old virgin and a girl. I've been reading some postings here from other people but my situation is different becaus...

He says he doesn't love me! Should we break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Here goes my story.. I met with my present boyfriend in college. When we met, I didn't find him particularly attractive in any sense and would have never thought about a relationship with him. He liked another girl at that time (her childhood friend ...

First date what to wear??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - first date curly or straight hair ? skirt or pants (date is at mall)...

He's been waiting 2 years for sex-should I make him wait longer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - so...im 17 and my boyfriend id 19. i've been in a relationship with this guy since i was 15. he has been patiently waiting for me to give the signal to start our sexual conquest together. i'm ready but i still have doubts about the pain and ...

I only like sex when I'm drunk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Ok I like sex, it's great fun, feels good and so on, but the thing is, I only feel like I can do it whilst drunk. If I'm sober, I don't know, I just feel as if I cant, like slightly I don't have the confidence in a way. It's not a comfortability ...

I don't get this guy, but then again I am dumb. Can anyone tell me wtf is going on here???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - My ex broke up with me 3 months ago, we remained friends until 2 weeks ago. I stopped talking to him because I asked him if he didn't like to talk to me anymore and he said that I always ask difficult questions, so I stopped talking to him. I am i...

How can I tell him my real age???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Ok here's the story, I've been on this chat site for about 2 years, and because I was under the age you were allowed to join, when I joined, I obviously lied about my age, basically saying I was 3 years older than I actually am, I've built some very ...

How can I be more social face to face with women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I'll try to make this short, basically I want to know how to be more social in face to face situations with women, can someone help me? I was also wondering if women in New York are nice lol. I don't want to sound arrogant, but I'm a fairly ...