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Archived questions from: 11 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What should I do? Marry him or run and forget the best thing that ever happened to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I am nineteen and I was lonely so I went on an on line dating site just for kicks and I met this amazing guy, he is a bit older than I am, he is 25 and I fell for him. He also has a child. Also is getting a divorce. I have been with him and have ...

Don't I deserve to have a boyfriend? But all I get is rejection!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - i think love and romance is for good looking and cute people,ugly people like me get rejected ,and cute guys would never wnat to be seen with me as i was rejected by a guy 3 years who did that me and i am still suffering the effects of rejection no...

Can anybody tell me if there is any way possible to workout a relationship with someone with a drug problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Can anybody tell me if there is any way possible to workout a relationship with someone with a drug problem? I've known this peron for over 30 years and always stayed in touch as good friends. He's had a drug problem as long as I could remember but ...

In love with my best friend, engaged to my baby's father.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Very long, sorry. I've been in a "relationship" with my boyfriend for 5 years. On and off. Whenever we would break up, it was always him telling me he didn't want to be with me. In vain, I always managed to get him to come back. But for him, it ...

Should I call him to appologise or free him and go on with life? I am suffocating without him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I requested a break for4 some time from my boyfriend by sending an sms to his phone 4 days ago because we quarrel over sex and I am not ready for sex, I am still a virgin and so is he also. I am 20 and he is 26. I found out that I can't cope without ...

What movie can win her heart?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - I was want to make a special night for a girl I know. She is into acting, and loves movies. Her favorite genre is Romance, and her fantasy is to live a scene from a romance movie. I absolutely don't know what her favorite romance movie, nor would ...

I want more action but don't want to come across as sex crazed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I'm crazy about a guy who I see from time to time! The thing is we are both backwards at coming forwards and all we do at the end of a date is give each other a goodnight kiss! The thing is he seems reluctant to make a move and I'm too shy (yes - ...

I'm bored with my man and fantasize about excitement

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - please help, i don't know what's wrong with me really. my boyfriend of a year is pretty much the perfect boyfriend. he does everything for me, he supports me, he loves me, he makes me coffee in the morning, he respects me carries my bags, doesnt ...

Will guys call me or do I always have to call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Should I expect for a boy to call sometimes, not just me calling him all the time?...

I'm attracting the wrong kind of man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I want to be in a relationship, but I just don't attract the right kind of men that i would be interested in, i attract old men, alot older then I am. What should i do or not do?... ...

I think he has moved on! How do I get over this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Hi, Need a little advice. I had a liason with a married man that lasted about a month. There was no sex but close enough and I thought there was a bond. Every part of me new not to do it but I had gone through a terrible break up and felt vuln...

Had an abortion, almost died, pregnant again w/HIS FRIEND! HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I fell in love with a guy a while back who became like my best friend too we came part of each other i got pregnant and we both panicked coz im achieved my dream of modelling and he was out of work so we decided on abortion but its illegal in our ...

I can't get a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - I wrote in a few months ago saying that I couldn't get a girlfriend. There were lots of helpful comments but I still don't have one. I've tried all the usual things like asking if they know anybody who's single but they always say no. And, to be ...

Why do I feel like I'm living in an alien world?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - This is a question for the men on here. Where do I find a woman that exude femininity and tenderness, do they exist anymore or is it just my age. I seem to be living in an alien environment. Has the world changed and I've stood still? I just don't ...

They're calling my boyfriend a pedophile

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - im 13 and my boyfriend is 16. we have only been going out for a week but we like eachother and have known eachother for a long time. Thing is people at school are calling him a pedophile even though hes not. we hav never had sex but we have kissed ...

Parents won't let me see my guy! Should I lie to them

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I'm in love w/ an amazing guy in WI. He is making plans to see me this summer but there's one problem: my parents. I'm like 3 yrs. younger than he is so I'm pretty sure my parents won't approve. The way I met him is a totally different story but ...

I hate French Kissing but my boyfriend tries to choke me with his tongue!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I don't like French (or 'tongue') kissing. I am almost 30 years old and have never liked it. I don't like wet sloppy kisses and on top of that I have a very small mouth. My boyfriend insists on ramming his tongue into my mouth every time we kiss for ...

Is he ashamed of me? He didn't ask me to go!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Right my problem might sound a bit stupid. My bf has a works do next Friday, they are going out for a meal and then on to some clubs. I know that gfs and wives are invited as ive spoke to some of them, and they said that i had been invited but my bf ...

Parents don't approve of my guy! Should I cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - hi, i have a boyfrnd that I have been dating 4 close to 4 yrs and the only problem is a muslim and am a christian and my parent dislike muslims,thou they have never met him cause am scared of introducing him.i like him so much but he hurt me in ...

We're fighting all the time now! Should we break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, we've always been a fiery couple but over the past couple of weeks our bickering has got so much worse, we argue constantly about the smallest little things. It seems to have got to the point where its ...

Will having sex with him affect my future

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Hi Fiends. As there are many elder, mature and wiser people here.Please help me in deciding what will be good for my future.As right now i can just see my present happiness. I love my boy friend very....... much. He also have the same feelings...

Consider the honeymoon stage- OVER. I need help! Fiance won't speak to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I feel I have messed up very badly. Me and my fiance are past the "honeymoon period". and since then all we've been doing is arguing, well rather him arguing, me listening. I also get very jealous all the time. We love each other to death, and...

My boyfriend ask me to have sex with him we are only in high school should I or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend ask me to have sex with him we are only in high school should I or not?...

Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend. But he does not loves me. He says he just likes me as a good friend. He wants to have sex with me. Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?...

Is our love brotherly or loverly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - So everyone says that me and my friend are meant for eachother. and that we would be a perfect couple. i know for a fact that i am in love with him. 100 percent. i dont know if he feels the same way. he goes and sees every movie with me, and we have ...

I'm ditching the bad boyfriend I have!! But should I give this man a go??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I've gone through a really bad marriage and am now getting divorced. I split with huby about 9 months ago and am now just getting myself back on track. Thing is there's a guy at work. I don't really know how to describe it. He's always had a thi...

How can I win her back into my arms? Is persistance the key?

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11 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I met this girl last October (07) at a class party in UCLA and we both have a mutual friend. She was "sort-of" seeing a guy at the time but I was gobsmacked by her beauty. I found out about her and eventually found out her guy-friend ...

Should I invite him to my b-day party?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - So a quick recap. We met about 2 weeks ago. Spent the first two days together. Exchanged a few mails. (i.e. I emailed him and he always answered.) Asked him to meet up on last Sunday. He canceled at the very last minute saying that he was just too...

I'm falling in love with my friends-with-benefits!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I think I am falling in love with my friends w/benefits. I picked him as my FWB because I didn't see any future with him because he has 3 kids and 2 exwife at 28years old. We are compatible in every way and have the best of time when we are ...

What are the rules in a traditional dating situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - What, if anything is reasonable for a woman to expect when a man is pursuing her [if the guy is on the traditional side]. For example, Is it reasonable to expect him to pay, walk her to her door, meet her in a location that is close to the city ...

Do I keep it a secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - ok so when i like people i like to keep it 2 myself or tell a few of my friends. but strangely enough i am starting to get some courage. so should i act on the courage and start letting the guys know that i like them or should i keep it to myself ...

Why did he mess with me like that?? I'm so hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Hi About a month ago I got in touch with a guy from my old school. We went to the same school system until high school but, we still live local to each other. In fact he lives down my street. Anyway, I was thinking on a friend basis (even thou...