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anonymous
writes:Hey Cupids...Basically i'm with a my new boyfriend about 5 months or so. It's lovely. Initially it was a light hearted sort of affair, but now we're very into each other and it's great and as each day goes by i love him a little bit more, and i know he feels the same. Problem is, i've known him for around 4 months before we started dating, and i knew him through his big brother; (and this is where it gets complicated).....the bigger brother and i go about 10 months back.... i've always known he's had a girlfriend BUT We worked together, and often found ourselves kissing at the end of drunken work parties, and we flirted like crazy for about 6 months. Bad i know.So now that i'm actually WITH the younger brother who im starting to fall for...i'm starting to worry should i be honest with him; so if our relationship really does go somewhere it will be totally honest from day one??? Or do i keep my mouth shut and fight the guilt because him and his big brother are EXTREMELY close. The more i know that he likes me, the more guilty i am.As for me and the big bro...that's all over now, was never really anything....and he knows about me and his little sibling. In fact we've really cut all ties in regards to eachother, and i think it's for that reason exactly. What do i do??
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (30 December 2008):
 TELL HIM NOW.. You'll have to tell him someday honey.. We can't hide anything from the people we love.. You'll eventually tell him Someday.. So WHY NOT TODAY.?
He'll understand. You just have to tell him that you were dating is brother and have kissed a few times.. Nothing more than that..
G'day
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