A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy a couple of months ago. We started seeing each other a little over a month ago. I've spent the weekend at his house 3 times. The first weekend we hung out with his best friend, but we also did things by ourselves. Christmas day, I met him at the movie theatres and saw a movie with him and his parents. We have had sex less than a half a dozen times. He is a very sweet guy, he loves to cuddle, gives awesome massages, we hold hands all the time, he puts his arm around my shoulders when we are sitting together on the couch and we can talk for hours. When we are in bed together, he will cuddle with me and that is how we fall asleep. I've caught him staring at me a few times. He is 38, never been married, no kids. He was going to ask a girl to marry him that he was with for 3 years, but found out she had cheated on him twice, so he kicked her out, this was 2 years ago. I really enjoy spending time with this guy, but don't want to rush things or get my hopes up. Do you think he is really into me?
View related questions:
best friend, christmas Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answer Anonymous! It helps! Here's an update to our relationship. I spend every weekend at his house. I go over on Friday night and don't leave until I go to work on Monday mornings. He calls atleast twice a week to talk to me when I'm not with him. Here lately I've been over there atleast once during the middle of the week to see him. He still considers us as just dating...which is fine...take it slow. He is very sweet to me, he does anything he can to make sure I'm happy, when we go to bed we stay up talking til well after midnight, when we sit on the couch with each other he either has his arm around me or his hand in my lap and his head on my shoulder. He's told me that I'm beautiful several times, that he doesn't deserve me and that he isn't sexy enough for me....I think he's too sexy for me. He makes me smile just by touching my hand. We laugh together all the time, we love to hangout with each other, we have lots of fun when we're together. It's just a little confusing at times if we're "just dating" or if it's more. Good things come to those who wait!
A
reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answer Anonymous! It helps!
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): You have cinemas open on Christmas Day?! Thats fantastic! I wish the UK did that.
It is pefectly acceptable to keep meeting up with this guy, ask him out for a drink, and in feminist land will now live in, its also fine to actually tell him you like him. Even if you just say it subtley. If he really is a very sweet guy he'll probably be fine with it, even if he doesn't like you back.
I know its not the easiest thing in the world to tell someone you like them, but whats the worst that can happen?
May as well give a go?
And answering the question, I think he does like you. I don't think this is the "Oh hes been looking at me," thing anymore, I think this where he really does like you. And even if he doesn't as I've said, you seem pretty close. He won't rip you to shreds, right?
...............................
|
