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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok this guy and I have been seeing each other for the past three months. We talk everday.. all day off and on. Things were really going good so I thought. This past weekend I went to his house after we had a few drinks. This would be the third time at his house and the second time we had sex. So we had sex. We started making out again and I didn't have anymore condoms on me and his were in his car. So he got dressed and went outside. I obviously fell sleep when he was outside and woke up to him on top of me and inside me. I asked him if he had a condom on and he said yeah.. well it felt like he didn't and when I reached my hand to feel, he didn't. So I immediately got up got dressed and left. He's been calling me and texting me even thought I told him to lose my number. I feel like I did the right thing and that is absolutely disgusting to say the least but he texted me the other day and said I hope you find the strength to forgive me.. like I'm the weak one. Am I over reacting?
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reader, alanna_HD  +, writes (31 December 2008):
 Nah i wouldn't forgive him..he's clearly only interested in one thing, and thats not you or your respect. Plus even if you do forgive him, you obviously can't trust him and your relationship will only be based on sex. I would forget him. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): No you did the right thing. A similar thing happened to me when I was younger. The guy put the condom on but took it off when we were switching positions. It was dark and I didn't know until he pulled out on me. Guys like that are only interested in their own pleasure and don't respect women. Dump him and don't look back!
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reader, Equil +, writes (30 December 2008):
Not at all,
If you actually fell asleep and woke up to him inside you, that's extremly dodgey.
It shows that he dosn't respect you enough to wear a condom or have you awake and aware before he begins.
Walk away, I know guys like this, sounds like he's after one thing.
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