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Archived questions from: 10 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

All he wants for Christmas... is for me to have an orgasm!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Hi I'm 19 and I am in love with my boyfriend. As often as we have sex I never ever had an orgasm! All of my friends tell me stories about theirs but I have none, what should I do? I'm willing to try anything. And just the other day he told me ...

Faking it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - When my bf starts to massage me with his fingers to try and get me to have an orgasm, I become embarrassed an I cannot get an orgasm so I fake it. Help me so I can stop faking and start feeling an orgasm?...

We're running out of things to try...any suggestions for things to try in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - What are some new things to try in bed? We've done a lot of positions and are pretty adventurous. We try brainstorming new ideas but get stuck in ruts. Any suggestions? Thanks!...

Should I hire a private investigator to see if he's really single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I'm 24, and currently single. My best friend's 23, and had a lucky escape from a guy she met in a bar. She said he was 5 years older than her, single, and seemed like a nice guy, but when she told her friend about him, her friend suggested she hire...

Do I trust my instincts? Or my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - I am currently very attracted to a girl, she seems almost too good to be true. According to my friend, who is best friends with her, she is psyched about me liking her. When I talk to her she seems a bit dry. Not much to say in the conversation. ...

Is this a bad sign? Or I am just freaking out??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex two nights ago. We were both tested prior, so went into our relationship clear of any STD’s. We have been together for 31/2 months, however, I remember learning in school that you can be carrying a virus for ...

I can't handle my girlfriends past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - I am a 26 year old guy and am in relationship with a 24 year old girl.I am deeply troubled by her sexual past. My girlfriend is a caring,lovely person,she is highly emotional and friendly person. My girlfriend was molested multiple times by her uncl...

Too angry & too aggressive!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - i have an anger issue . i get angry really fast and shout at my boy friend. he hates it . i tend to be very aggressive some times. we had a fight 4 days ago and now boyfriend is very distant . i m scared will he hate me forever?? will he leave me? i...

Was he just scared to commit?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Hello, I recently dated a man who has just finished with me (he is 52, I'm 36). He's never married nor has children. We were friends first and then started a relationship. We enjoyed all the same hobbies and spent every day together. We were ...

His "finishing pattern" is weird when we have sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Hii! :] My bf and I have been having sex lately for the past 3 weeks... he's 19 and I'm 17. Usually about 5 times a week we use protection and everything but his pattern for finishing is weird.... our first time he lasted about 10 minutes and now he ...

Is my penis too large?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - Hey I'm 15 and my penis 9 inches flacid and 10.5 inches erect. I am a bit scared as I was going have oral sex with my girlfriend but she declined me due to my size. I feel my penis is too large and I don't know what to do. Is this normal and if not ...

Is he shy or does he just not love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 weeks now. But it seems as if he's not even my boyfriend, I hardly ever see him at school (Btw I'm 14 I had a bit of an age mix up) and he doesn't hold my hand, or hug me or kiss me or anything. T...

The condom burst! Could I be the big "P"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - okay well here it goes on Nov 15th i started my period and ended on Nov 18th and had sex with my boyfriend on Nov 19th and the condom busted and he came inside me and at first i feel hungry all the time but right now sometimes i would feel sick idk ...

We broke up and he still spends time with me. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do and I'm really confused about the situation - maybe someone can help cause I can't see the wood through the trees for this. Me and my boyfriend split up about 3-4 weeks ago and he said that he didnt feel anythng for me a...

He makes my blood boil! I'm hitting my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for four years. The first two were great but the last two haven't gone well. My boyfriend is immature and wants to spend all his time with his friends and playing video games. Which starts a lot of fights since we live ...

Will his small lies turn into big lies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone....I'm a bit lost and confused and could use an outside perspective to try to see things more clearly. Sorry if it's a bit long!! My boyfriend of a year is the best! He's lovely and perfect and treats me like a princess. H...

9 months and we still haven't kissed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - My gf and I have been going out for 9 months. We love each other very much, however, we unfortunately haven't kissed because my gf stills feels very uncomfortable with intimacy due to her last abusive relationship. She wants privacy, which i have ...

When is it safe??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - Hi Recently got myself tested for HSV1 and 2 and it came back negative for both. My partner of several months however has the virus and gets outbreaks from time to time. She told me about it about 2 months into the relationship. I thought it was s...

Does he like me? Or just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - There's this guy I like at work but I can't tell if he likes me back. He'll tease me over silly things i.e Once I cam late from my break he was teasing me that I was seeing a mystery guy, he know's i'm single or if I'm applying make-up he think...

I don't think he likes me

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10 December 2008 (F) - I really really like this guy....but I don't think hes that interested in me...i really really like him....please help......

Been together for 3 years, no romance anymore, what can I do?

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10 December 2008 (F) - hi,my boyfriend and i have been togeather for about 3 yrs and we have a 5 month old son. ever since the baby came the romance in our relationship has completely died and i cant seem to get him to be more romantic. i tell him this but it seems like ...

He holds me back....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I have a problem. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years and I really have fallen for him, but things have gone terribly wrong in out relationship. I am turning 18 soon and I really want to live life, but I don't feel I can do that with ...

Is it possible you can like two people at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend 4 months ago while I was on summer vacation and we're doing the long distance relationship thing right now (but he's in a different country so I don't see him very often). The problem is that I'm starting to like this other guy I ...

I am not a sexual person and think sex is nasty.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a month and to say I am not a sexual person. I think sex is not a fun (nasty)thing and I really don't want to have it. He on the other hand is into sex and gets horny in seconds just by being next to me in bed when I dont ...

How do I know that she won't do the same to me some day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - She is on her way out of a relationship with long time boyfriend and he doesn't know it yet, we have kept things clean for the most part and I'm kinda waiting in the background to get with her but how do I know that she won't do the same to me some ...

Why does he do this when he knows it upsets me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I'm very insecure, I've always been, I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, he was like the popular funny kid at school, we both have a facebook, and literally 95 percent of his friends are girls, every day he's friends with like 3 new ...

Boyfriend does not reply to messages promptly, feel ignored

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Hello aunts, I am in a new relationship and my bf does not reply promptly to my text messages and it makes me thinks if he is just "using" me (we have had sex). Its not like he dosent reply at all but it just feels like whenever he has free time or ...