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Dating: Help and advice

Will her tightness go away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - Well this is kind of a reply to this question I asked a week ago http://www.dearcupid.org/question/will--my-true-feelings-interfere-with-us.html . Things have been going great with her after our first date we hit it off and this sunday we were ...

Feeling Lost -sorry for the length

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I seem to be troubled with my g/f and mostly our sex life. We've been together for almost 8 years and just had our second child. I love her very much and thought about marriage several times. We had great sex were both of us were satisfied. ...

Will this rumor ruin my chance of getting back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of two years just recently broke up. we tried hooking up for a while but I decided we shouldnt hook up with out dating. Im still deeply in love with him and would do anything to get him back. now the problem is, theres a rumor ...

What’s the best approach to get to this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I’m so confused about this right now so please help! A friend of mine was going to set me up with a friend of hers and asked me to check his profile out on her Facebook before she mentioned me to him. I had a look and wasn’t too interested and t...

I just found out that my BF cheated on me 4 times, how do I deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (?) - I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me 4 times (1 of them was my best friend) and he didn't tell me about any of them. I found out from everyone else. I'm in love with him and don't want to let him go but hes betrayed me and hurt me. How do I ...

Does he like me? I feel like I need a manual to read this guy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Hey everybody, thanks in advance for your opinions so i guess i wondering what is going on with this guy i am seeing... so he 10 years older, and we met through a mutual friend, we met mid september we hung out every weekend he was ho...

How can I solve this problem without leaving him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years after 5 years we broke up and then i found out that he was lying and cheating on me all that time so i had a relation with another guy and we had sex one time. after 1 year i got back to my ex-boyfriend and ...

Should I pay attention to the guy I like, or the guy who likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - there is this guy i am in love with and there is another guy who i like and who is also interested in me i dont know whether i should carry on lovin that guy or whether i should pay attention to the guy which is interested in me?...

All I want is to be able to have her half the time.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - Well here it is. Me and my girlfriend of 5 years had a baby last year. She just turned 1 last week. For a while had been using meth. My girlfriend found out about 4 months ago. In a way I thank god she did or I would morelikely still be using. But ...

How can I tell her that I love her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - She's 25, and very beautiful. I'm 32, and not. We met at a summer school being held at a university. I have been deeply and desperately in love with her for nearly two years. No matter what I do the feeling does not fade. I made a clumsy pass at ...

I've never had a boyfriend or kiss. I'm 29 and nobody wants me.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - hi i was wondering can any one help me . i am 29 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. i never even got my first kiss. i don't know and everyone else does. all but me. every guy i like rather someone else and never me. they reject me in the ...

He abused me and I left, now he wants me to come back, and help pay the rent as agreed, what should I do?l

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. Our relationship has been nothing but a rollar coster of emotions. We just moved into our own place which was probably the first mistake I made.(i think) Well as soon as we got all our things into our new ...

Great guy! No sexual activity, to speak of between us, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost three years now. When i met him he was a virgin, I was also his first girlfriend. He is the greatest guy i ever dated. Except when it comes into the bedroom. He hardly ever wants to have sex or fool around, ...

He has feelings for me one minute and none the next!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - im 14 and ive really liked this guy (15) for about 3 years and ive known him since early primary school. Well i fell for him during my first year of high school and that whole year he acted like he had feelings for me and at the end of the year ...

We are dating but he sees other people too, we have agreed that I do the same but I'm not happy with this "settlement" - your advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I met this guy 6 months ago. We met 3 times within 2 weeks, then he left for his job (which he told me from the beginning) for the whole summer, but told me that he wanted to see me when he got back. He called me once a month for those months a...

16 and never been kissed, I feel so upset...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - arghhh. im 16 and have never been kissed. its really putting me down as all of my friends have and they are starting to sleepwith their boyfriends. its really upsetting me that i cant get anyone. :(...

My boyfriend asked me to reschedule meeting my friend, will I feel he controls me if I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I have a real dilemma and I am not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I have been through a rough patch due to lack of communication on both our parts, but we had a real heart to heart today and have patched things up. It turns out that one of the ...

Why do I get like this, almost uncomfortable, when I become close with a guy I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Hi guys, i have an issue! Basically, I don't know why or what it is, but everytime I grow close to a guy that I really like and that really likes me, I start to become weird. For example, I am CRAZY over this guy i know, and he is crazy about me...

...so does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - There is this guy I really like! I was wondering if he likes me to. We go to the same church and school. At church he doesn't talk to anyone but his parents. But almost everytime I look at him he is staring at me. 2 weeks ago I was talking to one of ...

I don't want to be with some one who doesn't love me or doesn't want to be with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfirend for all most 2 years now but she never has the time of day for me, whenever I try to get to see her she always "says" she working but I ask all the time every day and she still says they ask them first when one day I ...

I'm in relationship with a married guy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I'm in relationship with a married guy for five years, but now he went back to his wife with the excuse that he got a new job in the county the wife is and now they live together, he want our relationship to continue and promised me that he is ...

Should I go back just to make him happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Hi there, I was in a relationship which lasted for 2 months, as time went by I realised that he is not what I wanted (being with him), so I decided to call it off, when I told him my decision he was very absent confused, fustrated and said that if I ...

First Date... HELP!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - We both go to the same college, so, it's not like the guys a total stranger. I'm 19, and he's 20. We have alot of the same friends, but we just started talkin the past couple of days on a 'non friend' basis. And we decided to go on a date Tuesday ...

My boyfriend isn't calling/texting...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Thanks for anyone spending the time to answer my question. I'm 17 and I'm dating an 29 soon to be 30 year old guy. I'm in college , so this takes away the "still living with my parents" factor Nobody knows about our realtionship. If my parents ...

Do I wait 6 months to get back with ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - My ex broke up with me 6 months ago, won't go into detail, but it wasn’t because he didn’t love me, but because he thought at the time we wanted different things. He has just contact me and apologised for being stubborn and said he feels really bad ...

How to improve a relationship that is falling apart due to unbelievable stress and hard times

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I would like someone to tell me how to fix a relationship with my partner thinks that I am the one to start every argument. He has not noticed any of the things that I have improved upon in our relationship, and he thinks that he has changed ...

How likely is it that you would get pregnant if you have sex when on your period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - Hey People, last night my girlfriend and I had unprotected sex, now we're worried that she might get pregnant. She was on her period. How likely is it that you would get pregnant if you have sex when on your period? Any help would be appreciated...

Is there any right way for foreplay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - I want to really show this girl how much she means so I don't want to mess up is there any right way for foreplay ...

What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - I'm going to make this as simple as possible. I used to like a girl who I was very fond of. But it was not recipricol, she was not interested. So I let her go and moved on... to my surprise she wanted to remain friends so we became friends, ...

Should I tell my partner that his best friend kissed me? We all live together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I am in somewhat of a dilemma. I have been dating a man for 2 1/2 years now. We moved in together and recently his best friend moved into our house too. All was fine until his best friend kissed me. Nothing major I'd say but its made it ...

My girlfriend wants to break up out of the blue??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - So here's the thing. Me and my girlfiend were friends for a year and then we dated for two years. She's going school and working full time. She doesn't have a lot of time to c me. Day before yesterday she calls and says she wants a break. She is too ...

I don't want to hurt anybody.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Hello This is going to be very detailed. Hope you'll bear with it. I met this guy online from a dating site and we hit it off immediately as we seemed to have the same values and good chemistry. He was 30 and eager to settle down (according ...

Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant for the last 2-3 months and its just not happening. Should I take a test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant for the last 2-3 months and its just not happening. I guess there is a possibility that I still could be pregnant. But im not sure. I have had my period every month, but I have been getting some ...

I just want to feel happiness and it seems I can't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I have been having so many thoughts go through my head its unbelievable. The thing that has been the worst is my mood swings. One minute I'm happy and the next I just want to cry I'm so upset. Growing up I always had someone putting me down. And now ...

His ex is pregnant... should I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - What should I do? I fell for a guy who just broke up with is girlfriend. We both fell right away, it was perfect. Then he found out that his ex was pregnant (She has been pregnant for 3 months, he did cheat) with his baby. Should I forget about so...

I want to be with him, but his wrestling consumes his life!

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1 December 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I lost our virginities to each other at 15. We dated for a few months and really liked each other but he was always completely distracted by wrestling. About a month after we had sex he told me he would be moving to a different ...

What is the solution to an addictive, negative relationship, I don't need to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - What do you do when you're addicted to someone who is obviously bad for you? My boyfriend has hurt me over and over and over but I always take him back. I let him know in clear terms what he did was wrong and I won't tolerate it anymore and then I ...

Help? I have no social or love life, please give me suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 23 and student teaching and working full time on my master's program and I am missing my social life. I hardly have any time to go out socially (and I'm not being paid for student teaching, so I don't have the money either-my parents are ...

The guy I love lives seven hours away, he tells me he loves me, should I keep hanging on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - As a sophomore in high school I started going out with a guy who became my best friend. We were together until Junior year when he broke up with me during the summer. I had 2 boyfriends in the time period in which we weren't together but they never ...

I don't want to do certain things, how do I get him to understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend wants to do more than kissing, not sex but other things .. we did it once before but ever since we haven't because of me, he thinks that i dont like him that much because we dont do stuff but its not that im just dont want to he doesnt ...

My girlfriend is gaining weight, I'm less attracted to her, how do I let her know or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - Hi, looking for a little advice really. Ive been dating for about nine months now, think the world of my GF But..since we started dating she has gained, maybee 2-3 stone on a 5ft 9 frame. She has always been fairly large which didnt bother ...

After a 15 month relationship, should I , I'm 18, marry my boyfriend, or wait?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - i am 18 years old and my question is should i marry my boyfriend, he is also 18 and we have been dating for a year and three months. i know i am young , but i want to know if the aunts from dear cupid think i should wait alittle longer...

Do I break it off with him, and follow my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Hi. Well rhe story is my boyfriend who has on occasion because of drink and drug problems hit me and been very aggressive. Due to my loyalty towards him as he was a friend and I helped him of off heroin, I can't seem to leave him to self destruct. ...

How can I make sex with her the first time good and memorable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - I like this girl a lot. When I turn 19 we are planing to have sex, she has done it with one guy who wasn't that good and I am still a virgin so I'd like to know how can I make sure I'm good at it for her plus I'm also a bigger guy and she is a ...

His Myspace is set to private and he won't let me see it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Ok, well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now, he has a myspace and I don't, I can't stand the website. He has his myspace set to private and I cannot see it, I am a jealous person and I can't stand it. I don't know what goes on. ...