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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Help!!!! I don't know what to do... I don't want to lose him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we are extremely close. he is honestly my best friend. Just recently he got his phone and computer taken away because he failed chem with a really low grade like in the 50s. His parents are ...

I'm trying to work out if I should be worried or if my insecurities are shining through.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I'm trying to work out if I should be worried or if my insecurities are shining through. My new girl that I have known for 5 months and been going out with for 6 weeks met my friends today and we all had a nice time. Problem is, she spent the wh...

I love you. You love religion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Dear cupid... Well first let me say that you must be at least this tall to ride my emotional roller coaster. Age; I'm 16, she's 16... high school. Don't laugh. I swore to god that I would never fall in love. Now look at me. There wa...

Was I too hard on her after our argument?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

17 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend's mom didn't want her when she was 1 years old. She had foster parents after foster parents. She's a bit sensitive about it. Well one day we had this huge fight about me working too and not spending enough time with her. Then ...

I think my fiance is or has cheated and I am wondering what I should do about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I think my fiance is or has cheated and I am wondering what I should do about it. ...

How to be comfortable with my boyfriend touching me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and a virqin and I've never done a lot with a quy but kissinq. Me and my current boyfriend have been toqether for almost three months. I'm qetting really curious about sex and stuff and I'm slowly trying new thinqs. I just got into kissinq ...

How long do you need to be in a relationship to consider sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Ladies please answer. How long do you need to be in a relationship to consider sex? What things need to be considered? What things does the relationship need to have to consider sex? Ladies do you like to take things in stages (ie kissing, mak...

I'm so into my boyfriend but I can't be intimate... I don't know why.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I'm so into my boyfriend but I can't be intimate... I don't know why! We have been before... We have been friends for a long time, had a fling, for a reason too long to get into we didn't see each other for a while, now we've got back in touch, f...

My emotions are all over the place after losing my dad last month...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Last month my dad past away with MS and my emotions are all over the place, if someone starts to get me in a mood I just lose it and my boyfriend said he is there for me but he's not, he thinks evry thing is okay when it's not. I tell him I'm not ...

I wanna break up with him but don't know how

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - well i have this problem with my boyfriend! he is very shy and i kinda made him jealous! it was not that i wanted to it was just that my friend asked me out to the movies and i said no because my bf was there! i want to break up with him but i dont ...

Will he hook up with his ex tonight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - so there's this guy that i have been seeing, he has an ex girlfriend though and they just broke up 3 months ago, i know that seems like a while but they also went out for like 3 or 4 years maybe more maybe less i'm not really sure, long story short ...

Boyfriend - bestfriend troubles...break up,or stay and lie ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Please Help ! I don't know what to do, I've been coping on my own for so long, I have a boyfriend, I've been with him 2 months on xmas eve... we have been together before, quite a few times but I have always broke up with him mainly because I...

Depressed and confused, did she mean more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Did she mean more? This guy I've liked for a while, got into a relationship over the summer with a girl who he hung out with, texted constantly, made presents for her and planned to fly to see her on his spring break. However, he flirted with oth...

I dont' know if I should worry about his fidelity or hope that it was just because he had been so unhappy.

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17 December 2008 (F) - I am trying to make a decision and it's hard. My BF is recently divorced, I know he loves me, he tells me constantly and if he forgets, he'll call me to apologize for not saying it earlier. He is always saying he wants this to work, he'll do ...

Do nice guys finish last?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...

What does the phrase "just friends" really mean

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - does just 'friends' always mean the guy is not into you? what if he says "your the most amazing person i know" and he has kissed you before? he also used to fancy me. .could there be any other reasons this guy wouldnt want to get into a relat...

I don't want to break her heart but I want out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - i am 20 i have been with her for almost two years now and i am beginning to like other girls but she says she is IN love with me. i dont want to break her heart but i dont want to keep going on like everything id okay. any ideas anyone?...

Do I start up something and possibly lose a friend? Or just leave things as they are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a situation going on, firstly I have this great friend I have known quite a few years now who I get on with so well and I know he would definitely like more between us. There's been the odd time together but nothing thats gone ...

What did the x in the text mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - hey right about a hour ago , i told this boy who i like, that i love him , but hes got a girl friend i texted him saying "im sorry but i have i bit of feeling for you xx" and he texted back saying "ok x " with a kiss did that mean any thin...

How do I get over hopeless love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - How do you get over someone you are very much in love with, who is also in love with you - but for many reasons...you two can not be together?...

I'm getting a very short fuse from his depression/insecurities

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I will keep this brief. I met a man who, over time, I fell deeply in love with. He then went through a stint of depression that was very taxing on the relationship. As he comes out of this difficult time in his Life, he is needier and more ...

Allowed to stay for a couple of hours then home by myself on the train while fiance stays!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Could you please help me! I am going to my fiance's works night out, but he's only allowing me to stay for a couple of hours! He said I have to get the train home myself while he stays at his friend's house. I think he has plasnned to meet up when ...

Lost in relationship confusion and broke, too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am going through a difficult time with my boyfriend of 13 years. Essentially, he bullies me about money. He took me off of the joint account we had 4 years ago and it has been nothing but trouble since. We have bills together...

I know my partner is going to have to make a choice but I just don’t know what to do any more and her father simply scares me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I have been with my partner for the last 2 years and we both are having problems but we are trying to sort thing out and at present we both seem to be making a good go of it. We have a 1 year old son between us and my partner has a 2 and a half year ...

I go soft during sex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Hi Just a quick question, I have been having problems keeping hard during sex, it's been on and off for the past year. I have taken viagra and I get a good normal hard but it still goes soft durning sex and takes ages to cum. I have a new ...

I never feel like I'm someone special to her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I need help, I am in a LD relationship and have been engaged for a little less than a year. Before we made it official I would text and email her every day and even phoned her occasionally but she rarely did the same. It never bothered me at the ...

I'm just confused now and have some mixed messages that I guess I need to sort out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hi, Looking for some help on this. Hopefully someone can give me some ideas or help. Around 14 years ago I was dating a guy on and off. We met shortly after I had come out of a long term relationship. I liked him but my mind was still very m...

We've ran out of things to talk about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I have a serious problem. I’ve been with my first girlfriend for seven months now and I’ve been very happy. However she feels that we do not talk enough about different things. I myself have never been a big talker and was always the type of person ...

I want a guy so bad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - soo basically it comes down to should i stick around or should i move on... well me and my best guy friend had sex in oct.[guy a] of this year and i slept with is best friend[guy b] in nov. of this year [i know that makes me seem like a slut] bu...

Signs of falling in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - My question is a very simple one. How do you know you are falling in love with a person. What are the signs you look for. I think i am falling in love with my girlfriend. All help is appreciated. Thank you...

My boyfriend masturbates to trans-sexuals

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over one year and we are both in our early 20's. About 3 months ago, I was dinking around on his computer and I found a site with t-girl porn (men qo view themselves, and live, as women). I asked him about ...

Am in love or lust with best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I need to know if I am in love with this guy I have known since first grade. he’s also my best guy friend which makes this so much harder. my friends say they think I am. but I don’t feel like I did the first time I was in love, I mean its the same ...

I'm the only one who says "I love you", he used to say it too, am I worrying for nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I know my guy loves me. We have been going out for a while. In the beginning of the relationship, we both kept saying "I love you" non stop. But now a days, I'm the only who says it, and when I do, all he does is agree. Am I working myself up over ...

We ignore each other since he found out that I like him, what to do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - There's this guy in my 8th period class, and the whole class found out that i like him-witch is true... we used to talk and stare at each other but now we ignore each other... He's kinda shy...wht should I do?...

He treated me very badly, we broke up, I still love him, he drove by my house four times, what does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated and he was starting to treat me bad. I didnt want to break up but it was hurting me so much. when i broke up with him he acted like he didnt care. i was crying so much and he didnt even do anything ...

He blew me off hung up on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - help my boyfriend totally blew me off today i called him and he said he had to go and just hung up what do i do he had a friend over but i feel like he hates me but he said he loves me still...

Should I worry about him cheating, when he goes back home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - So I have been dating this guy for a while. I have such strong feelings for him. He was with me during my pregnancy, labor and delivery, and is great with my baby as well. (the biological father left the picture while i was pregnant). I can't seem ...

He sends such mixed messages do he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - So there's this guy in my class. We'll call him Johnathan I knew him ever since seventh grade. When we first met in seventh grade we hated each other. But as the years went on in tenth grade we became very fond of each other where we were telling ...

Am I being too pushy with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years now and we lived together for 2 years. I moved here in california last year. Before, he asked me to stay with him and not to moved anymore but i said i cant because i cant live with the we...

Who's right? Me or Him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - ok well about a month or two ago, my boyfriend (almost a year) went to the dentist, but when he came back to school a few days later, i was holding his phone for him, and i got a message from his homeboy, who was right infront of me, then it comes ...

How can I learn to be more open?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Okay. I'm 15 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for almost three months but I've known him alittle lonqer. We have a qood relationship. We usually have qood talks- about sex or love and other serious thinqs, but we do talk normal about ...

How can I break his porn habit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years are now engaged!!! But I have one question... why does he seem to be so addicted to porn?? All of the pictures on his Sony PSP are mainly porn.Every time he gets to use a computer or when he gets to a WiFi hotspot, he ...

What's going on with his behavior?

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17 December 2008 (F) - ive been seeing a guy for about 2 months now. everything was going well, untill about a week ago really..nothing bad happened..i just didn't see him cause he said he was ill. i went round to see him tonight and things were ok..we were getting on ...

Is it just flirting or something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I'm 19, going to be 20 in two weeks. I go to school 7 hours from here but my family lives here and I come home and work during breaks and such. I work at an insurance company. Basically, we have a lawyer who just turned 37 a few days ago who works ...

What do you do on top?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I know this is going to sound stupid but I have only ever slept with one guy and thats my boyfriend and he was always on top now he's asked me to go on top but I dont know what you do... I know this sounds stupid but could somebody please tell me ...

Bartending fiance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - My 29 year old Fiancee wants to begin Bartending. Should I be concerned?...

Do dreams really come true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, Lately mostly every single day I've been having dreams about the one person i truly care about and its always about him and I- Every night I'm just dreaming about him like my dreams never changed just differen't stories- I'm not a true ...