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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Some questions to single mothers...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - Single mothers please help. I am a single mother with children in elementary school. I have been rather close with this new guy. He is very caring, nice, etc. I think I love him and he does me. We have done some kissing and making out. We are to the ...

Symbolism of ring: Could it be given as only a christmas present?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - I'd like to get my 22 GF some jewellery for Christmas. We have been dating for 15 months and this is our 2nd christmas together. I have already given her a necklace and bracelet. Should I get her a ring? I feel like the symbolism of a rin...

If I leave, could I be leaving the love of my life? Or if he is the love of my life, should I have realised that by now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - I am currently living with my man of 4 years. We have signed for a lease of one year. Thing is, i feel guilty, i am always feeling unsure about our relationship, as to whether or not we are best as just friends. He is so lovely to me, and ...

Objective advice on fledgling relationship scenario?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - OK down and dirty, I've only ever been in serious comitted relationships, 7 yrs and 3.5 yrs respectively. I've been single for a year now and have been trying to figure out the confusion of the dating scene, and meeting the run of the mill Yo-Yo's ...

How do I recover my lost sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - Hi i have been with my boyfriend for 3years and are still in love and are atracted to each other, we get on well to at the start the sex was great the i was put on the pill and i lost my sex drive then i was taken off it for medical reasons but have ...

Bewildered...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - I suspect that my height has stopped me from getting a girlfriend, I'm 5ft9 and girls have told me that I'm good looking quite a few times when I show them a picture or in conversation. I also have a good personality judging by what lots of people ...

Break up for school and having feelings for someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and it's been a good relationship but the problem is he wants to break-up because school is coming up and he wants to focus on it so he wants to have a break till his school is finished which is ...

What does "treat them mean and keep them keen" mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - what does it mean treat them mean and keep them keen, can some explain that to me?...

I like him and I don't think he likes me... please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - Hey peoplee :) Wht is is i really like this boy and he knows i like him but i feel he doesnt like me he says he does but i dont know to belive him or not!. i feel like im really pushing him into liking me coz i always comment on how hes looking ...

Intercourse after a two year break.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - I had not had a boyfriend, or any sexual activity, for over two years but have now met a super guy. However the first time he tried to make love to me the pain was excruciating, just as though I was a virgin again, and he had to stop. The second ...

Long distance relationship with single mum!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - I'm back again. I wrote a couple of weeks ago about a problem I was having with my long distance relationship with a single mom whose son recently deployed to Iraq. I want to thank the person who answered for the guidance, because I truly think it ...

New girlfriend and orgasm.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - Hi Been with a new partner for quite a few months now, everything is going very well. Except in the area of her orgasm, she never orgasms through normal sex, though this isn't the first partner I've had like this (about half my previous par...

Should I receive the engagement ring and hope for the best or wait to see if he's really changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - I'm wondering if you could give me some advice. As we speak my bf of nearly 5 years is shopping for an engagement ring (he's with my best friend. she told me). The thing is i'm not sure if i want to get engaged at this point in my life. We've been ...

I never have the chance to talk to my girlfriend in private because of her friends!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - Hello I'm a 23 years old guy with a big problem well at least to me ! .. here is the whole story .. i used to go to some uni where i met this amazing beautiful girl whom i liked and loved but the problem is .. she's always with her friends .. our ...

We act as a couple but are not officially together, should I tell him I'm already in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - i've been seeing him for 3 months now although we have not discussed anything official, we have been together every single night, we get along great, we laugh all the time, we have good sex and i feel the chemistry is there but like i said, we ...

How to tell parents that I want to move out and to another country to be with my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - Hi there, I'm currently living in South Africa and I'm a citizen here by birth, I plan on moving to the USA after April 7 in 2009 because thats when I turn 18, currently I'm 17. I want to move there and go live there permanently for many reaso...

Problem with apologising

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend finds it so hard saying sorry even if himself knows that he did wrong, he becomes defensive at the end and trying by almeans to prove himself innocent. he doesnt want to listen to me but keeps talking all the time. am fed up with this ...

Do I do something or stand on the sidelines and watch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - i want to know if my boyfriend of 7 years fancies someone else.she is his brothers wifes sister. i have a horrible gut feeling in my stomach that they like each other. he recently added her as a friend to his facebook.did not mention this to me.i am ...

Should I settle for what I have or go for what I WANT?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - Hello Everyone, this is the first time I register to any site about love/relationships, because I need some advice. First of all, I'm a 22 year old hispanic male that currently in a relationship with a 22 year old hispanic female that has been th...

I don't want to want up and be an 80 year old virgin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - I don't understand why girls just don't seem all that attracted to me. I'm 19, fairly smart, good hygiene, nice and funny. But women still don't seem to like me, I always just crash and burn in the friend zone. Sure, I might not have a six p...

He's lying and cheating & I want him to marry me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - He has another girlfriend and he’s denying it and I know that he has a girlfriend. His closest friend told me and this guy doesn’t have any reasons to lie to me. My boyfriend had a fight with his close friend because this decent guy advised me to ...

Worried and intimidated by a blooming sex toy that my girlfriend is waving around me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - My new girlfriend and I have known each other for 5 months and been going out with for 6 weeks, she told me today she got a dildo as a gift from co-worker... apparently not as a joke either. We are yet to embark on the sexual side of our ...

He thinks I want to break up with him... but I don't!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (?) - My boyfriend randomly showed up at house after I ate some spicy food that gave me bad breath. I was home alone and we watched a movie together. He put his arm around me and tried to kiss me. I didn't let him because I didn't want him to smell my ...

Should I be more vocal during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - I'm a virgin, but during oral sex and foreplay (I guess you could say), I've had an orgasm. I only get "sexual" with my boyfriends. So recently, my boyfriend and I have been doing a little bit more than 1st base. I feel pretty lucky since I do tend ...

Am I obsessed with this girl? And what else do you think of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - This is going to be a long and complicated explanation...and I'm not even sure what kind of answer I'm looking for, but at least I'm getting this off my chest. But my main question is, am I obsessed with this girl? Yes, right now I'm a little ...

Hang in there or let her go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - I am in love. I once told her I liked her but it was not reciprical. Its now been a while since then, and we are now getting to know each other little by little. Though it is taking a while, only few months at a time that I get to see her. She knows ...

Are we really MEANT to be together?

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18 December 2008 (F) - Just called me Cheesy. I loves him and he do loves me too.. but he already had a girlfriend which was about 4 years. I met him during Uni and we were best friends and don't know when and why we're in love. The painful part is we can't admit to e...

Doesn't want a b/f but still loves me... where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - My ex and I dated for 9 months. About a month ago she called it quits and said with her schedule and schoolwork, she just can't handle having a b/f at this time. Her cheerleading and her schoolwork were overwhelming and having a b/f ( hundreds of ...

How should I break the ice after a week of not talking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - This girl i was going to ask out last week. I wasnt able to because her friends got in the way and i didnt ask her out. I havient talked to her in a week, i guess i ignored her for 2 days, and i havient seen her around school since. How do i b...

I have no confidence and it's ruining my life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - First of all I know I am wrong and I hate myself for it. I am 23. I have an insane type of jealousy and I just want to know why. I feel phyiscally sick at the thought of my boyfriend's ex and I replay any information I have about her in my head. I ...