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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I can't handle the guilt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

14 December 2008 (?) - Theres this married guy at my work. We flirt ever in a while or so. But recently it got a little more serious we made out. I know shouldn't have and I feel disgusted with myself after it. I mean dont want to disrespect his wife or myself. Im a...

Is it wrong for a woman to be on the prowl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - i am recently divorced from my second marriage and is it wrong for a woman to be on a sort of prowl or a look out for a man to satisfy her intimately, emotionally and privately? in this day and age society is making a big hoop to do over sex but i ...

Is it good to defend him when he's being treated like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - I've been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now. I'm 16 and he is 19. We've known each other since we were really young, and we were best friends before we got together. The problem is his mother. I've never really felt like she's liked me...

How do I repair this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - I relocated to New Zealand with my fiance and 4 month old baby from South Africa. On coming here, I thought I would find a job quickly but it has not been the case as my skills are very specific to the SA market. As a result, I have been very down ...

Should I wait for any positive reaction?

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14 December 2008 (F) - Hi every body my problem starts when my friend and i felt love to each other although he is much younger than me about 14 yrs.we didnt fell any age differences between us till one day he quarralled with our boss and he decided to go to somewhere ...

How do I avoid the friendship zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - There is a new girl at work who is extremely cute, she laughs, and seems like she decent person unlike many other girls in Orange County. What would be a good way to start talking to her some more without falling into the friend zone which happens ...

Would I be stealing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - My friend has a girlfriend who goes to a different school, but I have a crush on him. We've been going to the same school for five years and been friends for two or three. We sit really close together, and he always offers to share his iPod in study ...

I'm scared he will get back with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - im seeing this guy, he cheated on his gf with me when we met at a music festival n then they split up a few weeks later because he told her. i was the one he called to talk to because he was so hurt and i helped him feel better. we've recently ...

Flirting: what's the best way a girl can get a guy's attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - this question is for the guys.. what is the best way a girl can get your attention? Say when simply "going out for a coffee"..? i dont want to appear overly flirty- i want to be seen as fun and interesting guys tips would be grea...

How can I make this less painful for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend is a virgin (im not). Recently we started having sex. Usually she im hurting her or im being too hard when im being gentle as possible. She'll in so much pain and makes me stop. Then we wait a bit for her to recover then try again its ...

Am I just kidding myself over this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - ok i have already posted this question. but i think i jumped around too much so i'll start from the begining. could get boring see this guy whom is 27, and i also work with him.it all started out innocent we flirted and joked at work with each ...

We want to explore one another without full sex, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I are only 14. We really want to explore each other and stuff, but we don't want to get carried away and well... end up doing other things. Any advice on how we can do that, but not have sex?...

How do I overcome this phase... or is it a phase?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - So here is the situation. Me and my gf have been dating for over 2 years. For the past couple month we been arguing on and off every few days. And they were not huge arguments, they were the small ones that were settled the same night. But recently ...

Threesome with girlfriend and her brother?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I've been with my G/F for a long time and have always found her and her brother to have an awkward but really good relationship. Everyone thinks so too that know them. She is older than him and when asked about their relationship wit...

Childhood sweethearts...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - Two years ago I got divorced. We were married for 12 years. Before that I was in a long relationship with what was my childhood sweetheart. We started dating in our early teens and were together for 10 years. It all ended badly, we both went our ...

I feel stupid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up and right after we broke up on wednesday we talked like 10 seconds later then after that 15 minutes later and then we talked Thursday, Friday, and Saturday about the break up. Well it's more like me questioning him about ...

Boyfriend's behavior: I can't wait forever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - This is a VERY long story. And I'm not sure if I can get proper answers without starting from the top and explaining as much as I can... My boyfriend and I met in Feb 2008, and were a couple by the end of March 2008. Shortly after becoming a c...

How can I stop losing respect for myself and becoming their worst enemy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - Ok Im in search of honest answers for my problem. Basically, Im 25 years old and Im single. My last serious relatonship ended when I was 21. I was with the guy for 3 and a half years and I split with him cos I no longer loved him. I have not ...

Is he playing head games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - ok there is this guy ive been seeing for 5 months now. well all of a sudden he is having second thought about us he said hes scared im too nice go figure and that hes worried because i have kids and he dont well first off hes 7 years younger then me ...

Is it better the second time around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - Has anyone ever got together with an ex and it been better the second time around as you had learnt from certain mistakes? I may be getting back with my ex boyfriend and I feel that I have definitely learnt a big lesson, which came with a lot of ...

Do you think he's interested in getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - there's this guy, ive dated him a few times over the past two years, but we had othre things to concentate on (work/college/he's in a band) we've remained friends, not very close ones though, yet he's always been there fro me if i had a problem ...

Do men like short or tall girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - Do men like short girls or tall girls. I am 5 feet, but have gotOk figure, Breast: 36 waist 27 butts 36 fair complextion and long hair. But i feel inferiority complex due to my short height. ...

Should I go for her again or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - Hello agony aunts, like everybody here, I've a problem. I've been in love with a girl for about a year now. We dated three times and we always ended breaking up because she couldn't stop thinking about horses and horse related activities. We would...

I still cannot get over that one night!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - firstly hello and thank you for taking the time to read this i feel so low right now i dont know where to begin. me and my gf have been together for 10 years on and off, we split for 3 years and she was in another relationship for that time, but w...

Beautiful and "boyfriendless"?!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - hey, so all the time i get "you are so beautiful", "you look like a model", "you always look so nice", and the "if any girl is mean to you its because they are jealous" from all my teachers. guys check me out at the mall all the time and they are ...

I never know when he is joking! He said he wants to marry me before we went out for the third time!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - Hi! I met this guy from the internet and started to go out with him. I'm starting to like him but it seems we have a communication problem. I never know when he is joking. He has always been hinting that he seriously wants to marry me before...

This girl is amazing and likes but she's my best friend's ex! What do I do?

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14 December 2008 (F) - well i have this friend and he had this girlfriend they only dated for like 3 days they broke up and she started coming at me i kept saying no. but she finally convinced me to hang out with her on friday and shes fucking amazing she likes every th...

My guy & I aren't connecting well, what can I do?

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14 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my beau for almost 7 years and we each have our own responsibilities in life, but it seems as though we're not connecting well. We barely talk and do stuff together anymore. How can I make our relationship mor...

Should I ask her out again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - hey, can someone give me advice? there's this girl that i have met and dated 7 yrs., while we were in high school, but we lived over an hr. away from each other; we met at a basketball game. Well now im graduated from college and currently coaching...

My girlfriend keeps saying she's ugly (she's not), it's getting very annoying, how to get her to stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend keeps saying she's ugly as hell or compares herself to her friends. I do tell shes beautiful but she's saying im lying to her. Its getting annoying. Im temptated to agree with her so she'll shup up about it. How I can get her to stop?...

Is it love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - ok so theres this guy hes a year older but i hang out with almost ever day he recently broke his phone and sence then we havent been talking as much but sence then i realized that i think i might be in love with him i mean we are not dating but hes ...

What is wrong with me why can't I get a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - I'm a 25 year old girl and I really need help. I have really "bad luck" with dating. I never dated in high school, the only date I've ever been on was when I was 21. This guy treated me horribly - he said he was desperate for sex and then ...

Can we start things up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - I want to be with my ex. I have wanted to marry him since we began dating...but we have been split up since February of 2007. That is a long time. I was going through some difficult times on my own and tried to break it off with him, but he ...

Asian Boys

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - I love East Asian guys. I do not love White guys. I'm a White Canadian girl. I grew up in a very, very multicultural area (I was the only white girl) and then an area that was about 50% Chinese. when I was 10 I moved to an all white area. Unt...

Why are some guys afraid to date someone they like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - I've been "dating" this guy for a month. We are not dating. But he has already expressed to me that he is interested. He told me that he is not looking for anyone else, that his eyes are on. He tells me he misses me. He tells me he wants to spend ...

Guys: do you find it gross to finger a girl while she's on her period?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - This question is for the guys. Buuut, ladies, if you have any helpful answers, you're welcome to reply, too...lol. My boyfriend has been wanting to finger me, and I've been wanting him to, also. He asked me if he could do it when we meet up tomor...

Need a little help with my girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - I am having trouble with my girlfriend. We have been together for 1 year 7 months and 11 days. I know weird I keep count but so does she. It's not hard to remember it really. Anyways we have been fighting a lot lately and it's been bugging me. I ...

Why all of a sudden nothing?

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14 December 2008 (F) - Any ideas why he's pulled back and stopped talking? This guy Ive known for a while and have a past with have been talking alot recently in the past month. He mostly starts the conversation via text or online asking how Im doing or whats going on? ...