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writes:I am in love with this boy that I been knowing since high school. it took me some time to finally notice him because I was in a relationship with someone else. now that I'm available I really feeling him and I know he loves me too. we've been in a relationship for about 8 months and we want to move together but my parents doesn't like me dating. I'm 18 so I can make my own decision but do you think I should follow my heart or obey my parents? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 December 2008):
Why don't they like you dating? You are 18.
Ask them why they don't want you to have a boyfriend, and introduce this boy to them.
You say you were in a relationship already... so why is this different? Why were you happy to go against your parents when you were younger and maybe should have obeyed them? But now you are old enough to make your own decisions you want to do what they say?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, loner  +, writes (30 December 2008):
 I know you dont want to hear this, but i would say you should listen to your parents, even if you think you love him, it can sometimes be your thinking and not your heart talking. I also seemed to like this guy two years older then myself, he seemed sweet and all that great but really he was not worth the pain and stress. Up till this very day my own father does not speak to me, we use to be very close, so to save your relationship with Your parents dont do it, maybe over 2 years move in togethet then see what happens... Good luck, its not easy!
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