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Archived questions from: 23 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why didn't he call back? He seemed so excited to hear from me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - A guy I worked with all summer was different around me. He was more outgoing. He was very quiet around others. He would always ask if I wanted a drink. He began dating a different girl, late in the summer so I backed off. They broke up about a ...

Midlife crisis or the end of a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Is it possible to love someone but be repulsed by them sexually and continually dream of a life without them? Could this just be a midlife crisis or does it signify the end of a relationship? ...

Any advice on this guy that just broke up with his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - this guy i like just finished with his gf last night iv liked him for ages and hes always seemed to flirt with me last night he told my pal about his break up then how he liked me she told him to tell me cos i like him to but he said he di...

If he likes me then why are we not back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hiya guys, One question about my ex bf, weve been split for about 3 months,we talk eveyday and see each other most days, but when i do see him he flirts with other girls and talks as in what he wants to do to them ( he nows these girls and so do i)...

Engaged to an alcoholic- how do I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 years, engaged for 1 year. I've always known he had a dependancy for booze, but recently it's hit ludicrous levels - depression, won't take medication, won't go to work, out drinking for 12 hour sessions. ...

Should I be sad he didn't invite me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - its a tough situation but guys and gals i really need ur help!! im desperate :(...ive been with my bf for 4months now.but we know eacher other 4over a year now and we both liked each other long beofre we officially got together. i mustsay that we ...

Anal sex: How do you make it pain-free?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have had sex once before but she doesn't want to risk getting pregnant since we know condoms don't always work. Do to circumstance we are unable to obtain any other kind of birth control. So she asked me if I'd be willing to have ...

Does acne make me too ugly to get a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - I got two questions. One,wot are da qualities that girls look for in a guy? I am 19 . Still single. So pls,help me out. Two,i had lots of acne.so i have some spots on my face,not that much visible .but is it way too much ugly to have spots on face?...

Boyfriend is becoming more sarcastic and causing problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyf for nearly 16 months, were both 16. Were always talking about our future, had all our "firsts" together and my family adore him. Lately, in front of my mum, hes becoming more sarcastic to everything i say, arguing over sil...

He's flirty with other girls but could it be me that he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I've been seeing a boy for some months now. I really like him. I think i he likes me too, but I don't know if it is more than friends. When we see each other in group with our friends, the other girls are flirting with him and he laughs much with ...

Will someone help me to clear up this confusion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - so theres this boy named ed. and were both juniors. im 18 hes 16. 2 years ago we both met in art class the first period the first day of hs ever. im not lieing when i say this but i fell sooo inlove with him. theres so much stuff thats happend. and ...

Diamond in the midst of trouble?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - ok before anyone reads my plea for help.bear in mind that everything happens for a reason and that u might find a rough diamond hidden in the mist of trouble.please dont reply if u are not going to look at the picture.ok. a few weeks ago i ...

I don't understand what he means by me being "too attached" after 3 years! Well of course I am!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He never really talks about our future together, and he always say things that make me question how he views our future, but I never questioned him openly until last night. For example, the other night I ...

Should I tell my dad I'm dating? He won't let me out...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. i love him alot and i know he loves me too. the problem is that my dad doesnt know about us. i wasnt allowed to date until i turned 16 and i already did so im allowed to have one by his set of rules. ...

Turning on my partner...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hiya, hopefully this will be a fun question :) I remember reading an article in a magazine a while ago about turning on your partner. Under the 'dirty talk' bullet point, it suggested whispering something sexy/naughty to them unexpectedly, eg whilst ...

How can I get him to open his heart and really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy for 3 months it is like we have known each other in a past life. He told me he loves me but how do I know he means it from his heart? He was with this person for 9 years, she passed away about 9 months ago.. before me there ...

My boyfriend's bes friend just committed suicide, how can I comfort him?

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23 December 2008 (F) - I'm a girlfriend to an autistic guy and his best friend just commited suicide. What can I do to help him? He's pulling away from everybody and is worrying his parents and I....

Squirting!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hi I need help!! I'm 18 and just started having sex. And recently while having sex with my boyfriend I have found in one particular position I always seem to squirt.. this is new to me and I thought I had urinated, I sort of felt embarrassed until I ...

My low self esteem won't let me and my new guy be happy together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I have this new guy in my life that I love very much, But I have this problem... my self confidence is not where it needs to be. Therefore in the past I have been known to sabotage any potiential realtionships because of my fear of the person not ...

WHY doesn't he want to have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Soooo I got this boyfriend who last year went to Arizona for three weeks. When he left we had no idea of how long he would be gone. Here's the kicker we DID NOT have sex before he left and we had super quick morning sex the morning after he got ...

Need help with what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - Hi, my name Dan and I've made a big mess of everything, on Sat 12:00pm 20th December I went and saw my sister for the last time before she went to adoption, anyway I was expecting to be with my gf coz she knew I was going to be upset but later that ...

Break-up: Before or After Christmas?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Yes, this is incredibly bad timing. I have been in a relationship for 4 years and have known for a long time that something wasn't right. I wasn't ready to admit to myself that I no longer wanted to be in the relationship - until yesterday. My ...

I am sooooooo frustrated by him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - First, I live with my boyfriend. Last night we were cooking after I got out of the shower...so with a towel on my head. I got done finely chopping the ingredients and went and half dried my hair, so it was a mess. I walked out to get a cup of apple ...

So I don't know am I being selfish of should I go crazy at him????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hey, as you know its nearly christmas. Christmas for me is about spending time with the family and friends, AS you all know I've been engaged for a year now. Anyway, my fiaence is dropping off my presents on the 23rd December for me and I won't be ...

She broke my heart, I moved on... but not completely.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend says that I was brave enough and he is proud of me for dumping my girlfriend... but somehow it feels wrong to do it... I am happy with him but deep down inside I know she's not right for me cuz she broke my heart once and I let her in ...

Apart for 12 years, still a great relationship but now he has baggage, do I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hello all, I need help determining what I should do about this man. We were together about 12 years ago when we were both in our teens. The relationship then was fun, passionate, spontaneous, and all other things that kept a smile on my face. Its ...

I'm in love with my girlfriend for reasons that are not physical.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - I'm in love with my girlfriend for reasons that are not physical. I care about her deeply, but strangely, I do not feel a need for sex. While it is nice, I never crave it. I am physically attracted to her, but I just don't see sex as a necessity. Is ...

She thinks of our relationship as more of a friendship, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - i have been with my girlfiend for 18 months now and i love her so much. latly everything has changed and i dont know what to do. she said that she feels as though our relationship is more of a friendship. i dont know what happened. i buy her gifts ...

Will he get restless and leave me if we don't have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. i love him alot but we havent had sex or anything. do you think its time or should we wait longer and if i do, will he get restless and decide to leave me? please answer...

Is he doing all this just to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - my ex boyfriend, I still like him. aloot. I'm only 13 and I don't use the word love. so I reeally like him still. and were close friends and talk a lot. but for some reason, we haven't talked in a while. and its been killing me inside but I'm ...

I feel like he has a secret life and fantasies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - em i crazy been with a guy 10 years he thinks i want and need sex all the time with him and he thinks i have other parnter he always has but he says he loves me he recently wanted me to exlpore and tell him about it after words so i tryd we meet ...

I found the perfect girl but will I be missing out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - Hello, i have met the perfect girl and i want to spend the rest of my life with her... but... im so shure that we will be together forever im afraid i will lose the chance of being with other women. Its not that i want to cheat or anything and trus...

Is it reasonable for me to feel insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I have been dating my girlfriend for over a month now, about to be 2 months. We don't see each other alot, the most is 3 times a week and the least would be 1. She has alot of guy friends, like alot. She hangs out with them everynow and then, ...

Am I stupid for being with him still?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - okay, here i am again with my problems. I jus got into it with my fiancee again, n this time i dont even kno where I stand anymore..I am tired of him thinkin that, what im trying to do for my son, he thinks im doin it for myself.. I ask...

I'm needy for my boyfriend because I don't have anyone else! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I am living a situation that have reached its breaking point, I am in United States, but I am not from here, I leave my country of origin 9 years ago, and lived in other country 8 years, during those 8 years I study in the university ...

How is it cheating if we're not 'official'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I am talking to this new guy, we are not official nor are we really exclusive, he still talks to she friend girls as I do my guy friends...however we spend most of our time talking to each other, we love each other, but in october I had sex with my ...

How do I end it with her? She's bipolar.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now. I still love her to death but she has become someone I am not in love with. For starters, she is bi-polar. She has drastic mood swings and constantly argues. I am a very laid back guy and can easily ...

Will I just be his 'token' black girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - There is a new guy I am talking to, he makes me so happy, he claims to love me and I know that I love him also. The only problem with him is that he is sort of racist...prior to me he has always been into spanish women or women of mixed race..he ...

Is he making it clear we are just going out as friends? He calls me 'buddy'.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I'm falling head over heels for this guy. I recently broke up with my ex..and he was there to offer his support. He had mentioned us going out even while I was in a relationship..I never took him seriously. But now we've gone out a few times and we ...

Why would my fiance say this to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Before we got engaged, my fiance told me he "is not obligated to do anything for me". What does he mean by this? Why would he even say this to me ?...

I like a guy that ignores me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Theres this guy i really like and when my sisters friend is around us (because his also his friend) he doesnt act the same he harldy says anything to me he ignores me. i have tried to speak him to it but then he just ignores me and asks me if i ...

How do I get him to spend the night at my place?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a situation with my boyfriend, he is very good guy and he does everything for me and everything that I talk to him about some aspect of the relationship that I don't like, he tries to fix it, the problem I have with him is that, it is ...