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Archived questions from: 6 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I break up with him over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (?) - Im a vagan and my boyfriend (im 15 and hes 16) eats meat like it's the only food left in the world. I tried not to let come between us but one day we went to a restaurant. He ordered veal When he got it he was bf: Look its Betty the cow. He...

Am I reading too much into the vibes I get from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid readers. I've got a problem! Hence why I'm here!! I've got this huge attraction to another woman... I'd even go so far as to say I'm in love with her. I want to tell her because this is killing me. Problem is, I don't know how she...

We were just friends, now I don't have a clue!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - Hey. So here's the problem, I have the greatest friend in the world, just call him J. Well me and him have had so many great times together and I love him more than anyone in the world, seriously. Well all was alright but then one morning I woke up ...

How to show him it hurts when I make an effiort to spend time together and he backs off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - i spent the last 2 days working hard and kissing so much ass at work to get monday and tuesday off so i can spend the days with my bf now he told me he asked to do extra shifts thoses days even though he knows i worked so hard to get them off. his ...

I have never been kissed but now I have to kiss on the stage, any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - I am in a school production. I have a few kissing scenes... problem is I have never been kissed. I am ok with a stage kiss and he is also and that is what the director wants but in the play I am a very aggressive character that kisses him. I don't ...

Which one???? They're both so appealing to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - He's soo adorable... The way he laughs and when he's there for me...Lets call him RF. Theres just one probem...i love him. I have a boyfriend too...i love RF as much as my boyfriend(KL) but they cant stand each other=/. KL is supposed to be taking ...

I'm scared I'm going to mess things up if I tell him I like him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - Well for a while I've been hanging out with a friend (who I've liked for a while now...) he's been coming over for a while and we've been having a good time. A couple weeks ago something happened, and we ended up making out. It...was to say the ...

29, never kissed and I'm scared at the thought, too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - i am 29 yaers old and i never ever kissed a guy in whole life nevr even once i don,t know ow and partly scared of it too.how do people french kiss ...

How do I make sure he's not playing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 22yr old and have just come out of a 3yr relationship. My first love and sex experiance. He ended it with me and i was devastated. Its been a month now i feel better in myself and i seem to be getting interest fron men. One in...

What are some ways to boost my sex drive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - What are some ways to boost my sex drive? I've heard certain foods or herbal supplements can help. I'm on birth control; i've heard this can lower the sex drive? Has anyone else had the same experience? Also due to work and school I'm always ...

He gives me mixed messages but we are just friends! How do I know if he wants more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - Hi I am so confused. How do I know if a guy wants more than just freindship? Myself and this guy are very close, we do a lot of things together as freinds. I have known him a few years now. I am very reserved on my feelings, always have been...

Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - Hi there, really hoping someone can help me.. I've liked this guy for a good few years now and although we've grown close and I've become one of his best friends he's never wanted to be anything more. Last year he found out that I liked him and told...

How long will the "limerence" last this time??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - At first glance this may seem like many of the other 'internet crush'-related questions, but I promise I actually do have a point, so please bear with me for a moment. I've already seen a lot of the answers to these types of questions so I'd like to ...

He told me he didn’t fancy me anymore but how could this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - About 9 months ago my friend told me that he was attracted to me and I admitted that I had feelings for the guy too but we decided to just stay friends. One night, a few months later, he came over to mine and we had a cuddle and ‘dry humped’ and he ...

Do girls remember emotional moments longer then guys?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 December 2008 (M) - hello...i read the other day that girls are more emotional then guys...well, i know this to be a fact, but do they tend to keep emotional moments in their minds alot more then guys do? For example say i got my girlfriend a gift to make her happ...

We're friends who have sex, but are we really friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - Yet again I find myself let down. Story of my life really. I seem to meet blokes who constantly lie to me and use me. Anyway point of this question is that I met a guy a few months ago, who I really like - I think he's totally amazing! He lives ...

2 men are being friendly... or are they being more than friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - I would like to know whether either of these two men are showing interest in me. First one at my child's school. He came past and very politely said hello and on the way home from school he passed me on the opposite side of the road and smiled ...

I would welcome more fun in my life, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

6 December 2008 (M) - Hey, well here is the thing. My life is so boring! All of my friends have things going on like relationships/hook ups, my brother is going to uni my best mate has a really beautiful girl after him and i have nothing like that at all. Every day is ...

She thinks I cheated on her... how can I explain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (?) - Me and my girlfriend went to a party together. Well turns out my ex was there and I think she was a bit drunk too. We just were catching up a littie when she tried to kiss me. I did what I could to stop her but then my girlfriend walked in the room. ...

I need opinions on whether staying with him is worth it!!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with someone for about a year now and there was a time recently when we broke up for about a month or so. In that time the both of us got involved sexually with other people, but have said that it was nothing serious. ...

He calls me a promise breaker!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend since last 2 years. I had true feelings for him, I oftenly used to tell him upto which extent I loved him. Though he never said to me verbally that he loves me. Whenever I happened to ask, he always replied: "My ...

My two best friends have fallen out with me, what can I do to win them back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - This has been weighing down on me and I really can't take it any more.. me and my 2 best friends (I have more best friends than them.. but we were the closest) aren't friends any more.. they never treated me right, they're mean to me, and etc. I ...

Every time we fight the thought of seeing other people interests me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (M) - I am 20 years old, my fiance is 19. Without giving too much detail, I am an up and comer entrepreneur in the creative entertainment business, run my own company, all that stuff. Met my fiance 9 months ago, we fell absolutely in love. She is an ...

She gave me an STD, now I don't know whether to stay or leave.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

6 December 2008 (M) - I just recently found out that the (only) girl I've been seeing and having sex with for the past couple months gave me an std; doctor was called and said that I tested positive. Recently our condom broke so I'm guessing that's when it happened. I ...

We've been dating for three months, how can I tell if he's ready to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - This close guy-friend of mine and I have dating/friends with benefits for about three months, but neither one of us has been seeing anyone else since we've started seeing each other. Lately he's been occassionally using words like "not-quite-boyfr...

Did he try to hook up with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about a month and have been telling him all along I don't want a relationship but he's been trying to convince me that we should be together...it seems like it's moving toward that direction until the newest ...

Been with him for 8 years now but he has no financial stability.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - I have been dating the same guy for 8 years and we are not moving forward mostly because I will not. He is kind, caring and handsome, but he has no financial stability and we totally are different when it comes to parenting and resolving conflict. ...

Why has he changed so rapidly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - Well, i met this guy through a friend and we started getting along. he was very shy when we used to meet up. one day we started talking about experiences and he said he doesnt make the first move and i sed the same then after i could see he wanted ...

My friends-with-benefits has erection issues...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - I'm in an open relationship with a 30 y.o. co-worker who is involved with at least one other woman seriously. We're just friends with benefits, and he claims to feel no guilt over being with me, but he is unable to reach orgasm while inside of me. ...

Why is she getting excited over fireman if she hasn't lost interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going through a tough time for the past month, we do not live together but been a couple for 14 months now. She works 2 jobs and we do not get to see each other very often, and it is now starting some friction, when we ...

DNA test results!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - Ok I'm trying to work things out with my boyfriend who cheated on me 3 years ago. There is a possibility he is the father of a little girl that is now two years old. My question is if a women asks a man what if I told you I was pregnant would you ...

Too young to buy sex toys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - Hi, i am 16 and in need of some help. My boyfriend and i have been talking about having sex together. We are both virgins and i am worried about the pain to come with losing my virginity. I decided that it would help if i was more ready when ...