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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

If I am pregnant it will make me the happiest woman alive, but I'm scared her reaction will cast a huge shadow over our happy news

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 20. We haven't been together very long (6 months) but we are very much in love. We decided that I would stop taking the contraceptive pill to try and get pregnant. We are both sure that this is what we want, i have ...

I really need someone to shake me up and tell me to get a reality check.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I know this is like a lot of typical cases.. but I really need help. I'm in my second year in high school, and I've had this same crush since the first week of freshman year. This guy had shared one class with me last year- which is how I got to ...

Why are some guys so successful with girls and why are girls the ones who end up alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - hi how do guys get girlfriends so quickly and some girls don,t even get a chance. i know i like a guy he wouldn't even consider me a girlfriend understand no circumstances but others girls he would consider girls. girls that he doesn't even kno...

Should I tell him I like him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Well, I really like this boy and he's one of my REALLY good friends. We're freshmen in high school, and last year (8th grade) we met, and we became best friends, and I told him everything. I'm 14(15 next month) and he's 15, almost 16. Now that ...

If a man reveals his affections to the woman too soon, can this kill his chances of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - Hi. Fifthquadrant here. This may sound a bit ridiculous/cheesy, but I was just wondering whether there are any women out there who have actually been willing to have a first date with a guy AFTER he has actually told her face to face that he 'likes ...

What can I do and say to make her like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - she is really goofy and funny. she's short(which is fun to tease her about) she's a pervert in a funny way and she thinks dirty stuff can be funny. i like her. we flirt alot but it could just be that she's flirty she is kinda considered our school ...

Am I wrong for being mad at him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just made 4 months yesterday. We didn't get to spend much time together like we planned because he had to go to his step father's graduation and I had school all day. Last month on our 3 months we didn't spend much time ...

Was she expecting me to ask her out???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - help! i'm 13 and i fancy this girl and i know she considers me a mate. the other day she asked me who i fancied and i said her. thing was, she'd already figured that out and thought it was really sweet. so what do i do now??? i am hopeless at this ...

I hate not talking to him and I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - i have started to like one of my best friends (DM) but my best girl mate likes him as well. recently he started bitching about her to me, but to her face he acts all nice. today someone told her what he said and he blamed me. now he wont talk to ...

Is he my toyboy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

5 December 2008 (?) - Hi everyone my question is this who come guys can date younger girls but girls cant date younger guys? I'm having this problem I'm 13 so's my bf but hes in the year below me I feel like we're falling in love we have loads in common and inseparable! ...

Should I have responded to a love letter I received from this guy in my office?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hey there! A guy at work from a different department passed me a note recently telling me how he felt about me (i.e. positive stuff!) and that because he has suddenly realised that I'm actually seeing someone else in the office he has decided that ...

Does he like me, not like me or just not know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Right, typical teenage boy trouble: BAsically, there's this guy i like at school (NM), and i really like him loads, and i wanted to find out if he liked me... so on msn last night i atold my friend i liked NM and asked her if she could ask him be...

Drama!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - MY Fiance And I Have Been Dating For Little Over a year and we have major issues with his ex( daughters mother) interfering. sitting outside my house, following me around to the beauty salon, calling me, taking me to court for harassment, suing me, ...

My boyfriend finds it very difficult to attach himself to anything or anyone... will this change with time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - My bf's parents are divorced and he doesn't attach himself to anything or anyone saying he doesn't want to get hurt... he is not open to me.. it's been 2 years we have been seeing each other... Will this affect my future with him?...

Can I have my boyfriend back after the space that he needs?

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5 December 2008 (F) - In relation for the question that I have posted this morning regarding my indian muslim boyfriend... since he wants to be alone and will just call me back if he fixes everything about himself.... is there any possibility that we can be together ...

33 and never had an orgasm!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I am in need of knowing what I am doing wrong here. I have never had an orgasm and for some reason when he is rubbing the "spot" it tickles like hell. I want to but I guess I cant. I'm 33 years old and never had one, that's crazy, that's with having ...

Rejection all the time...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I don't like guys any more because they always reject me and it's really unfair. I am shy, quiet, nervous around guys, I have a weight problem, I'm short, not goodlooking just plain with a fat face. I have so much bad luck with them I don't want ...

Semen in the eye? How is it treated???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - Everytime me and my girlfriend are having sex, and she has an orgasm, she pushes me off or tells me to get off after she is done with her orgasm, it just makes me feel unwanted. At least she ends up giving me oral or I have to finish myself, the ...

I've STILL not heard from her.

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5 December 2008 (M) - Aiit! guys this is nick checkinn again. So, I am not callin my honey.. not even texting messages.. It's been exactly 10 days today. What I know about her is that she is a very chilled out person with no issues at all. As I already mentioned she ...

My ex hit me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - My ex hit me. He put me down, told me I was fat and ugly and now this is affecting how I am with my new boyfriend. I have been with my current bf for a year. If he moves too quickly I flinch, if he shouts I get scared, and I'm always asking him if ...

It's a question of age!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hey got a simple question. I just wanted to know whether its ok to date a guy say 5, 6, 7 years older than you?...

Suffering over his porn habit...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I know there are many posts here with variations on this theme, but I'm just desperately searching for some insight and haven't yet found a situation similar enough to mine to bring me any comfort. I'm in a 3+ year relationship with a guy that ...

Every time I think that I may be actually getting over him it's like he knows I am and tries to crawl right back into my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Two years ago I had started my first job when I had met Dave. As soon as I had layed eyes on him I was infatuated. Within a couple of days knowing him I had made up my mind that I had grew feelings for him. A few weeks later I had found out that he ...

What do I do to prove to her that O will never lie to her or cheat on her again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I'm having a problem with my girlfriend and it's all my fault, since a year now that we started this relationship, I've cheated on her and lied without knowing the reason why I did all this to her, though I lied because I don't want to lose ...

Is it wrong of me to want to have fun before I settle down?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - I told my girlfriend that I think relationships at my age are more to do with fun rather than love and she got really upset. I do love her but I don't want a serious relationship just yet. I'm only 17. I've been going out with her for over a year ...

I feel unloved and under appreciated...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I feel as though im stuck in rut and I really need other peoples opinions. I have been with my partner for over 3 years now we live together also but recently I've been feeling as though I'm missing out on being single and having the option to ...

I'm scared it all ends in tears again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - hi, Please can someone help me, I'm a mess! When I was 19 I met a girl and we got on so well like best friends everything, was good. 2 years on we had a kid got married, after being together 4 years we started to argue a lot, mainly me being ru...

I just want him to love me for me, not just use me for sex or try to make me the person he wants me to be.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my bf for just over a year, I love him so much, I nearly died a few months back and since then things haven't been right, he won't open up to me or talk to me. But now I have an STI and I think he has been cheating, he tells me he ...

I used to avoid his parents who don't like me but now we're invited over for X-mas, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - my problem might seem a bit silly. i lived at my boyfriends parents house for about 5months but i would always avoid his parents, i wouldnt talk to them and wouldnt come out of his bedroom until they went out. i have had some problems with his dad, ...

Close guy friends have told me men feel intimidated and assume I'm taken. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Ok, so I'm not super model material but I've been told by people that I am an attractive person, my problem? Men just don't seem to talk to me and I'm shy when it comes to meeting new people. Close guy friends have told me its because men are ...

How can I show him how much he means to me and not go over the top?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year things havent really gone well, my dad died and we have had some problems. mainly because of me being very depressed and moody. he was going to leave but we decided to try again. how can i ...

He said he wants to forget about me but he doesn't even know me that well!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - The guy I like, well people have told me that I had fallen for him and apparently is obvious, he told me that there was a connection and that because he didn't know me that well he didn't want anything more, because we don't have the same interests ...

How does one get a guy to talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I've known this guy for a while but not really so well that we talk to each other all the time. We say the occasional "how are you?" and such but I don't really know anything about him. But, we're continuously thrown into the same environment, it's ...

He hardly spends time with me and says the more I whine, the more he will do this!...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about ten months..the longest relationship I've ever had. I don't think I've ever felt real love until him. It took me a while to realize this. I was with another guy when I first met him and he tried to convince me to ...

Is he talking the truth when drunk? Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - All mature people here please give me the right advice. I have a boyfriend. But our relation is strange. First i used to call him. He always asked to call me only between 4-5 on saturday. Most of the times he used to cut my calls.Out of frustration ...

Rough sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I recently had sex with my boyfriend and it was a little rough although I felt no pain during intercourse itself. Afterward I began to ache. It is now almost a week later and I have been bleeding moderately for about four days. I feel an ache in ...

What are the signs a boy gives when he's interested in you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I have a problem, I don't know when a boys likes me. What are the signs a boy gives when he's interested in you?...

What should I do? Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - So... me and my ex dated for a year and seven months. But I broke up with him cause we just went too far! (Meaning, we had sex. Our first time btw!) But ya see. I didn't want to. And even he knew that. Ok! So anyways... we broke up, and I've mov...

My best friend's boyfriend likes me, should I let her know?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - My best friend has been dating her boyfriend for two years. A few days ago he tried to kiss me but i didn't let it happen. That day he confessed me he had been wondering for about six months why he hadn't met me before he met his girlfriend. I ...

I feel I never see her... am I best moving on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - I don't know really how to explain the situation, it's really kinda complicated this might be a little long but I'm not sure really what to do, I'll try to explain it as best as I can. I met this girl last year around this time. At the time she ...

I think my boyfriend likes someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 13 years old and my name is Narda! Well I have been having some problems because I have a boyfriend and I think he likes another girl which I am very mad about! I need some advice because I really like him and I don't want to break up...

How can I bring her to orgasm without actually having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - This is more a question to girls than guys but if they have any tips please share them. I've been with my girlfriend 4 months now. We've yet to have sex but we have done other things. Has anyone got any tips on how I could make her orgasm without ...

My boyfriend barely kisses me, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hey, I don't know why but I've noticied my boyfriend doesn't like kissing much. I mean we pop kiss all the time but I mean really kissing. I just want emotion into it, pops don't really have a meaning. I feel kinda crappy cause like the guys in my ...