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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I've been having some trouble with my boyfriend in the bedroom.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm Chloe and I've been having some trouble with my boyfriend in the bedroom. We've tried to have sex twice and on both occasions it was too painful (for me) for his penis to go in to my vagina. Is this normal? What can I do? I'm also wondering ...

Chlamydia testing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hiya, I have been sent a chlamydia testing kit free by our local NHS (they are sending out free testing kits nationwide to 18-24 year olds). I am 19, and had protected sex (condom) with a partner when I was about 15. I got with my recent partner ...

We never have sex and he doesn't want to talk about it...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I need some advice, I posted a question about a month ago or so when I was very upset after having found out my boyfriend had been watching porn behind my back throughout our entire relationship. He denied it for a while and finally admitted it and ...

Curious about anal!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - I'm curious about anal but me and my girlfriend have joked about how weird it is before. Btw i am talking about her touching me there. How should i bring this up if at all? Thanks for the help :)...

14, pregnant and terrified!!!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Well I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am sooo upset, I have found out that I am pregnant and I don't want my mum knowing because I am afraid she will think I am a slag. Please help what should I do ?...

Does he like this girl more than he says?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - All right well I have a boyfriend who I really really like. He's cute, funny, smart and just amazing we have been dating for 3 Months and 21 days I love him so much. But there's this girl who likes him and she's really pretty and I'm not sure if he ...

Unprotected sex but don't get pregnant? What's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm a bit worried here. Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for almost a year now and we have un-protected sex regualary... but my periods still come on time and each time I don't seem to get pregnant (when I don't take the morning ...

I just can't add it all up and put my finger on it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a man in his fifties for a few months. He is not your stereotypical 50-something. Quite young at heart and in his way of being and outlook - a bit artistic-looking in some ways too and a sensitive, creative type, especially with ...

Did I go into this new relationship on the rebound?

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7 December 2008 (F) - Hey, the story is I was with a guy for a while (coming up to two years) but then we started to not get on as well and we argued and in the end there wasn't much of a relatioship going on so we broke up. I was obviously upset for a while but after a ...

I don't feel the same way about him as I used to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about seven months, it's all been good, he told me he didn't want me talking to my ex and when we got in a fight I called him and we talked.. 2 months of us going out and then I told my boyfriend. He was okay with ...

I want him, not his kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend keeps trying to push his children on me. I do not like children and have chosen not to have any of my own. He contacted me through a personal ad on the internet that stated how I feel about kids, so there was no surprises, he knew ...

What should I do with this? How do I handle it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - Ok, so my girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago. The main reason for her ending it was because she said it felt too weird because we were too good friends before hand. I was ok with this, and was able to get over her and move on, and I am ...

I like this guy but I am afraid that WE have severally screwed this up AGAIN. Opinions needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I met this man when he was married about nine years ago. Without any thought he and I began a passionate extra-marital affair that continued off and on for about a year or so. He got divorced and began seeing someone else. I was crushed because I ...

What are we supposed to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months, and the other night I made it clear to him that I want to give my virginity to him, no doubt about it. He is a virgin too, so I'm nervous for what we are supposed to do. I mean both him and I ...

Is this normal or the start of abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I met this guy when I was 17 years old and he and I have been sleeping together and been "Together" on and off for three years. I am almost twenty one now. The relationship has become unhealthy and we are more addictied to each other. I cant get him ...

Why has he not called me...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hi! - I'm starting to worry! - I have been seeing this guy for a few dates! - Nothing serious - just a drink and a goodnight kiss!! Anyway - he usually texts to see how I am after - but last time he didn't! - He's not the world's most reliable...

I'm 15 and ready for sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Heyy :)x What it is, I'm 15 and I feel I'm ready to have sex .. but I'm really quite scared I dunno what to do :( I really like the boy I'm with and I feel I wanna lose it. A lot of boys have asked me for sex before but I didn't feel ready, I a...

He has been hurt badly in the past, do you think I have a chance with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I live with someone whom I love very much, he says he loves me in his own way, he has been hurt very badly in the past by 3 other girlfriends, do you think I have a chance with him or should I go?...

How can I finally let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - It's been 5 months and I still haven't let go. I feel totally pathetic that I have barely progressed in getting over my 2 year relationship. Granted after 3 months he started to woo me and get me to want to be with him again. And then at the 4 month ...

He went off at me for trying to help him... are apologies needed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - My bestfriend and i got in an argument last night.... He was mad because he couldnt take a girl to the dance. So I told him he should make it up to her, he asked how...and i wasnt sure what to say but i did my best to help. I suggested he ask...

Does she love me and what does the picture mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - There is this girl who is a close friend of mine,she looks me in the eye,allows me to hold her hand,smiles at me,comes to visit me. I told her i liked her and wanted her to be my gf but she said she was not ready for a relationship. I asked her to ...

A girlfriend would be too much!! How can I pleasure myself without one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - right now im doing 40hours a week at work, going to high school, and going to fire department and if i get a girlfriend i would be taking on too much so is there any other ways i can pleasure myself...

After a drunk dial last night, I'm wondering if I should be worried.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - Alright so I'm wondering if I should be nervous about this or not. I've been going out with this girl for a bit over a month, and we're getting along ridiculously well. Anyways, yesterday she drunk dialed me and told me she had a couple things ...

I like B but feel guilty and start thinking about A, maybe because I haven't seen A lately? Who should I pick?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Okay Ladies and gentlemen i am in a bit of a predicament...I am 22 turning 23 female trying to settle in to a serious long-term relationship... I have been seeing this guys who is about my age and truly amazing and would love to spend the rest o...

Does my cyber friend has feelings for me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - We're 13 hours time difference apart on the Earth! 3 months ago I met a white man, (I am an Asian girl) thru internet - this is the 1st white man cyber friend I ever had. He was quickly attracted to my picture I posted on the net and we became f...

Wishing away the next 6 months until my ex gets back! HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I am feeling quite low at the moment as I am constantly thinking about my ex-boyfriend who has gone travelling for 6 months. Just before he went we started talking again after the split and actually got it on again. He has invited me to go and see ...

When I like a guy, I eventually get bored and irritated when he gets attached, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

7 December 2008 (?) - Okay i have a major prob, i don't quite see the prospect of dating anyone with the way am functioning. The prob is as follows : For eg. i like a guy..like him for max a month or something...then he starts to crush back..then wehave a good ti...

How to break that wall he has against me since we broke up? I want to date him again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hi, so I broke up with my boyfriend for about a month and 2 weeks ago (we'd been together for 20 months and most of the time we've been really happy). We go to the same school, so we see each other practically every day. I didn't really wanted to ...

Freaking out because of late period.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hey, I may be freaking out over nothing here, but my period is about 4 days late and I'd really like some advice. Me and my boyfriend have had sex twice in the past month, both times we used a condom and they didnt appear to have split. A week or ...

Anyone know any sexy one liners?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - Hello everyone...:) My girlfriend and I of 9 months are quite happy and everything is a-ok. We like flirting alot, and its fun. Just wondering if anyone knows any reaaaally good one-liners or so to see if I can get her aroused or not, and no we d...

My girlfriend doesn't want to talk to me any more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I love my girlfriend too much, some time ago she also loved me but now she told me that she don't like me. Now she told me that she wants to live her own life, when I say ok she starts calling her old ex boyfrnd and she talks every day when ...

Is it too soon to get engaged at 17?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I just wanted some advice on whether getting engaged at this age is too soon? As me and my BF have only been together 7 months but he is thinking of proposing to me! I want to say yes as I love him and want to be with him for the rest of my life. We ...

Should I leave her as I don't feel she wants to commit to me? (She has a boyfriend already)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for almost 2 years. We eventually fell in love and gotten personal but only in private because she still has a boyfriend. I wanna know if she truly loves me because she can't seem to leave her boyfriend in fear that I ...

Do I tell my boyfriend that I'm not a virgin anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Do I tell my new boyfriend im not a virgin anymore? I told him that I am but I want us to be honest to each other. So what do I do now? Do I tell him i'm not a virgin or do I let him think that I still am? Im 17. He is 21. Im not planning on having ...

Nothing will ever help... nothing!

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7 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I see so many girls my age and younger then me with boyfreinds and i missed out all along the way because i was getting rejected by guys who had girlfreinds in the past and know how to get girlfreinds and kow how to kiss and know how to get what ...

Have I already blown my chance with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - Hello everyone,Im a guy of 23 and got chatting to a really great girl who is 18 via a dating site and we hit it off straight away. To keep this as short as possible. We met up and went on a couple of really fantastic dates and i felt we real...

What do I do in case he has feelings left for the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I think my boyfriend might leave me. I thought everything was ok between us, but I'm not sure if he's still in love with his ex. He says he loves me but why does he care so much about what happens to her. If he cares that much, then why isn't he ...

My parents hate her, my friends hate her, but I love her... what do I do??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - ok... here is the situation i have... I am completely in love with this girl i go to school with but i have dated her 6 times before in the past each one lasted about 5 months. Well we have been really good friends since we broke up about a year ...

I'm afraid my past will bit me in the butt with this girl I like. She is best friends with one of my friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - I've had a very bad relationship life. For many guys they tend to think I'm crazy because I've dated so many women. Reason I've done this is because after a break up I had with someone I cared for dearly, I searched comfort in dating and having sex ...

How do I explain my attraction to him if they are only going to make fun of me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I really like this kid he is in seventh grade. I am in 8th. All my friends think he is ugly and way to short for me. I hate it. I met him at are local skating place. He was soo sweet ans i thought he was really cute!!! We couple skated and i t...

Oh, shut up and kiss me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - ok, so here's the deal, me and this guy flirt ALOT, and people allways comment on that, and how they think somethings going on between us. But yea, I've really grown to have feelings for this guy, and I know he feels the same way, I've been out ...

He's below average in the looks department....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Me and my bestfriend have been friends for many years. Over these years, he's always loved me in a way more than friends and has asked me on several occasions to be together with him. Over the years, he's really grown and matured and I find myself ...

I'm jealous of his celebrity crushes!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I have a stupid problem. It's my own personal stupid problem, but it affects my relationship. I'm jealous of my boyfriend's celebrity crushes/porn. They're all these sexy women with gorgeous faces and bodies I'll never have. Like Monica Bellucci....

Should I be patient or should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I was hoping to get some advice on a very personal issue For the last year and a half I have been with my current boyfriend (K). Even though we started as good friends he initiated his interest and I completely fell for him. At the time I wa...

Is this being strong or being stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Okay so recently I was dating a guy who I have been with off and off for a little over a year and we didnt talk over the whole thanksgiving break so I finally talked to him once I found out he got accepted into army/bootcamp sorta deal. After that ...

Should he attend his ex fiance's wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend was invited to his ex-fiance's wedding should he attend? We both know she has feelings for him still....

Any ideas on what to get him for Christmas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - What should I get my boyfriend of 3 months for christmas?? Im about to be 15 and he just turned 16.. He loves sports but not jus any specific team I dont want to buy him the wrong thing.. What should I do??...

Do you think I should experiment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I'm 24, straight and I think i have a slight crush on another female colleague who is about my age and also straight. We work very closely together and we get along great, often having lunch together, sometimes just the two of us. I've found myself ...

Am I being self centered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - On November 1st of last month it was my 19th birthday, and coincidentally, the day that my first, and current bf and I started dating. Now of course it's my first time doing all this lovey-dovey stuff and whatnot, and it seemed like I could be ...