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Archived questions from: 16 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Whats a guys fave nail polish color?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - ok this is probably a weird question but here it goes. is there any nail polish that guy especially like on a girl ? I know guys may not pay attention to that stuff but I'm going on my first date this weekend and I want everything to be great and ...

Are ladies turned off by heavy guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - Im over weight, How much does that turn ladies off?...

I treated her like a princess why did she do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - i was dating this girl for three months i fell in love with her instantly but then i felt that she moved fast after three dates after the first time i slept wih her she started playing mindgames saying things like she had sex cause she was insecure ...

Is this shady? Do you think I should react or stop being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I work in the same team. We both are 25+ individuals. I mention this cause I want others to know this is not a kiddish matter.I have been observing that he has been talking to this colleague of mine "Say her name is X " (she is also ...

Is there a chance my boyfriend could be gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Well I have been dating this guy for almost three years and I think he might be gay, but I'm not sure. When I first met him I thought he was a little feminine but I eventually fell for him. Now, almost three years later I beginning to wonder if I ...

Breast Fetish!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - This is about by girlfriend’s breasts. My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year. I have accidentally bumped them but I want to see her breasts and touch them. Ladies, please give me some advice. I have only seen them covered up. I ...

I'm angry and upset that he stayed at hers when all he had to do is get a taxi home.

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16 December 2008 (F) - Hi can anyone help me? I've been seeing this guy for the last 3 months. We've been taking it slow as I have a daughter from a previous relationship he has not yet met. I usually see him on Sat night and stay at his house and two other times ...

Should I wait for him to grow up more?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - what can i do he is 12 and im 15 i really like him and he likes me too he is friends with my ex and me and my ex broke up 1 month ago but i have liked him for about 4 months but the age is what is killing me and i dont know if i should wait about 6 ...

Is this a sign of bad treatment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Hello! - What do you make of this? I'm with a man who is constantly short of cash! Anyway, the other day he sent me my Xmas card through the post with no stamp!! So muggins here had to pay!! - How bad is that?! - I havn't got round to asking h...

Should I get him a PSP for Christmas and maybe some games to go with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Hi Cupiters! I know this isn't related to relationships..but in a way it is. :) My bf wants a PSP for X-mas and I want to get him (1) or maybe (2) games to go along with it. Any suggestions?...

Why does she have to be so awkward?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - Hi I am a Christian but my Atheist girlfriend refuses to celebrate Christmas, what gives? No one else seems to have a problem, why does she have to be so awkward?...

I'm afraid to have sex but I don't want to neglect him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I'm scared witless by the thoughts of having sex, i'm 17 and i've been going out with my first boyfriend for a time now, he is 22 and has much experience. i feel trapped and in some ways forced to have sex, but i feel like i'll would be hurting him ...

Is he gay but curious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I'm at university and a couple of weeks ago on a night out i met a gay guy who also lives in my halls and is friends with my friends. Despite being told that he was gay i couldn't help but fancying him a little. We've chatted since, then a we...

"Rough Doggy-Style Porn"- should I even ask?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I rarely get intimate, once every two months to be exact. A couple of days ago I found porn on his computer. That doesn't bother me. What bothers me is that it was titled "Rough Doggie Style" and the first few seconds shows a man ...

Do guys prefer a thin girl, like size 0?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - right so im about an average weight for my height and age but do guys prefer a thin girl or a girl with a bit of weight.do they like girls who are size 0? ...

What can I do to curb my sexual desires?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I was wondering is there anything I can do to curb my sexual desires? My boyfriend and I don't get intimate very often, in fact we go months without any sort of intimacy. I need to know if there's anything I can do to squash my sexual urges so that ...

I don't have the slightest idea how to snog

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - Hi guys my girlfriend wants to snog and i said yes. we have been going out for 1 month and we both reallly reallly like each other. the problem is that i dont have the slightist idea how to snog. i really need help quickly please....

He used to fancy me, but now he doesn't want to ruin the friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - people say I am good looking, smart and can talk to anyone ive been friend with a guy about 7 years, he used to fancy me but now he doesnt want to ruin the friendship why would he be so scared? is he simply not interested? he blows hot and ...

She acts likes she's possessed by a demon during sex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2424 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - Hi guys i have been with my current girlfriend for 2 months now. Things are going great, and we have just started having sexual intercourse recently. The sex is great, but is sort of getting over shadowed by the way her reactions are during. Her ...

What does it take to make a girlfriend or get the number one spot?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - What do guys look for in a girlfriend? Brains, beauty, good physique, sophistication? What do they want?...

I feel like my world has been crushed, all our wedding plans have been made.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years and we got engaged last Christmas. He also moved in with me around the same time and we were never happier. Around 4 months ago he started to get down and depressed, we put it down to money worries, ...

Is jewelry a good idea for Christmas when we have been dating a short time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - Is jewelry a good idea for a girl you've known for 5 months and dated for 1. If so what type and how much should i spend? ...

Does it mean anything if a guys asks if the man you are with is your boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Does it mean anything if a guy asks you if the man you are with is your boyfriend? On two separate occasions I have been out for a drink with two different male friends of mine and this guy that I like, has asked me both times if my friends are m...

Does she like me or just want an ego boost from knowing that I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - I met a girl a few months back and we really got on well and it seemed we were about to get together properly until she went back to her cheating ex. Anyway to cut a very long story short, she now happens to work with a female friend of ...

Do guys like athletic girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - do guys like girls who combat sport?...

Which pen to get my girlfriend for Christmas?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - For christmas I am going to get my girlfriend of a month an engraved pen as she loves stationary - would it be meaningful enough just to put her name on it or should i add a message too and if so what should that message be considering we've only ...

I'm not ready but I think he's obsessed with having sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - im 30 years old divorced and have 2 kids. i met that guy who happens to be my brother's friend about 4 months ago. we have been dating now for a month. i feel he cares a lot about me. like 2 weeks ago we kissed and fooled around. we still didnt have ...

Torn between cheating b/f and his friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I can't deciede, please help me! I found out from my boyfriend close pal, that his dating another woman. I dont know if i should confront him about it because he did not tell. Also, he told his friend he loves me very much, but yet can't decied...

Men's thoughts on marriage proposal

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Hi agony uncles What does a proposal mean to you? What is it like to propose to your longtime girlfriend, if she was waiting for it for a long time and sent A LOT of hints? Do you want to surprise her with the question even she is really expec...

What do you think about proposal? Should it be a surprise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - We went ring shopping last week, so probably he's proposing to me soon - but mn, it's as strange feeling expecting a proposal when it's supposed to be um, a surprise. I don't really care about the ring, but I really dreamed of a surprise! Even so he ...

I found porn on his PC, young girls about 14 years old and it's freaking me out.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

16 December 2008 (?) - I should first mention that I have recently been pretty down, dealing with stress, sadness, and so forth. It is taking it's toll and making me suspicious and irritable. My boyfriend and I are in our twenties, and we have been dating for 3 years. On ...

Are we rushing into things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I'm 16, my boyfriend is 18. We have talked about marriage and stuff and we have only been togteher for a year, is this like weird or un normal are we rushing into things? ...

Is he only in it for the chase?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - So me and this guy that I have been seeing for about 2 and a half months recently started being a little more sexual with each other. I'm a virgin but he's not and his reputation is somewhat of a player. Anyway, we aren't yet in an official ...

Am I crazy... for even wanting to be his friend?

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16 December 2008 (F) - I met someone on a dating site. We agreed to meet mutually after a few emails and about a week of telephone calls. Our first meeting was ice cream. Our second meeting we had great sex (we are a 50 something couple) and this continued on for about ...

Is it just nerves because this is new or is this a sign that he might be gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - my new boyfriend does not get an erection while looking at me or touching me. He only gets an erection if I am stimulating him manually or oraly and likes his butt played with. He said he's not really in to anal sex and when we do have sex he ...

Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - Kissing and the older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? Is it true that in general women like to kiss? Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date? Or in general should it wait until the second or third date? Should she take th...

Do you think this married guy is trying to trick me? Please, I need your help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I met a nice guy a month ago through a business, he offered to test it and it turned out he like it. He´s in the army, and the deal is for his place of stationed. He started helping me out spreading the word and all and told me he´s married with 3 ...

Where are some good places to take an older woman out on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - I am interested in dating an older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? Where are some good places to take an older woman out on a date? Hiking? Café/restaurant? Club? Dancing? Other ideas? I think women like shopping. Does shopping ...

He invited me for Christmas so I cancelled my plans, but then he got cold feet, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Help! Everything's going wrong! I've been seeing my boyfriend since September (although we had known each other as acquaintances for six months before that). Things were just starting to feel comfortable and easier than when we first started going ...

I'm crazy in love with my ex who has someone and cheats on her with me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I was with my ex for 2 and half years we lived together and talked bout marriage. I was close hearted and emotionless didn't tell him i loved him. and we broke up once but got back together cuz i said i would try and be more loving and I did 100% ...

Can someone tell me what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - Here's my story i've met this wonderful beautiful girl over a Videogame (Final Fantasy XI) a MMO that we have played together for a year then i asked her out. we where dating for a year and a month, she lives in the UK - Essex and i live in Germany ...

Dating for a week and he's already sexual. I'm not used to this and feel weird, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a week now and today we were making out on the sofa and he got under my shirt and touched me through my jeans. I feel it's wrong and i dont want him to think im a slut but i feel so weird and i ...

She led me on for a year, made me think I have a chance with her, now I'm heartbroken and depressed, can you help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - Im in so much pain right now it is unbearable. The girl i was in love with led me to beliv for a year i may have a chance with her. That has finally faded after months of intense conversations and the thought of knowing i may have a chace. Now ...

Does this mean I'm the rebound guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - hey people ok im just a little confused. my girlfriend and i have been friends on and off for about 7 years. this last time we became friends it became more an weve been together for 7 months now. the thing im confused about is recently she told me ...

Should I sleep with him so I can get back to my work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I have a question.. I kinda already know the answer, I guess I just need conformation. Here it goes.. So I've worked with this guy for a few months. He is sooo hot. So hot its distracting. I find myself not focusing @ work because I stare @ him.. A ...

I want to know how much I mean to her and if she's ever going to grow out of her tendency to only have short relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - My girlfriend (we'll call her Hiei, and I'll be Kurama) lives in Louisiana and I live in Pennsylvania. I'm 20 and she's 18(now). We have had a sort of on-again-off-again relationship since January 2007. We dated online for six months, the first ...

Can't sleep without my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I am sitting up right now, I can't sleep when my boyfriend's not a round and just sit and think about him. I haven't seen him for 5 days it's geting to me. What Can I do? plzzz Help P.S. Is this site just for relationship questions?...

What to do with my hands when I kiss someone...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Hey, I've never been kissed before and I'm wondering what am I supposed to do with my hands? Hold his hands? Hold the back of his neck? Run them through his hair? Any suggestions? Especially guys, tell me what you like? thanks ...

He says the relationship is one sided and I need to prove to him that I love him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - My name is Sam and me and my boyfriend had one of the best relationships ever and then I had to move to another country and we continued it through long distance. Then because of my work schedule I stopped remembering things I was supposed to at ...

Rough patch or is it over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for three years we are both 23. I love my friends but I have always felt lonley in the sense that I don't have much in common with them. When I met my boyfriend I couldn't believe it. We have the ...

My boyfriend is gay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I just found out my boyfriend of 6 months is gay. 6 months may not seem like a long time at all, but for me it feels like my whole world….and yet it feels like it wasn’t long enough. It is all to hard to explain how I feel but I keep trying and I ...

Does having braces create a problem when kissing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - hey um I have braces and I'm wondering if that will create a problem while kissing. I've never been kissed before but I think I might this weekend on a date I'm going on. will it hurt me or him and like if we like just so happen to fre...

Does lube help for the first time if you're too tight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Me and one of my past boyfriends tried to have sex but i was wayyyy too tight so it hurt so bad. We tried like 4 or 5 times but every time it just hurt too much or it wouldn't even go in!! Would lube help? Also, if you are on birth control will you...

Do you think he may just be into teenage girls, and when I reach 25 he might go for someone younger?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - This is a bit of a weird one. I am 19 years old. My boyfriend is 25. We are with each other nearly two years. Though I don't act/look my age (most people think I am 25, my boyfriend innitially thought this from my character before we star...