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Archived questions from: 3 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I get him to revolve his life more around me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - Hi Guys, I think this is a great site and I really need some advice. I realise it can take a lot to reply and really think about someone question but I'd appreciate it alot. Me and my boyfriend of nearly 2 years are in LDR he is in Sweden...

What do I do about my girlfriend acting distant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been togther for two years, We were getting on great. then all of a sudden for the past 2 months shes just distancing herself from me. Hardly ever gets intouch etc. She says she still loves me and wants to be with me, But ...

I get made fun of for being with my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - i get made fun of for dating this boy that i love very much. there were rumors that we broke up and got back together, but then we did break up and then got back together because i couldnt live without him and got back together. now i get made fun ...

How do I please my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. I'm 16 and have been with my girlfriend who's 17 for a couple of months now. She's a little more experienced than me, as i've never been in a same sex relationship before. Every time we have sex, she makes me cum, either by going ...

I can't seem to let go, I can't seem to feel, I'm just stuck. Whats wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (?) - So I'm sure you've all probably heard this story a million times. I don't know if I'm even asking a question, but just need to pour my heart out to a kind ear. Any words of comfort would be greatly appreciated. my boyfriend and I broke up official...

She treats me good, it's just the way she acts when we aren't together that throws me off.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (M) - Okay this is kind of a complicated mess but I will try to spell it out the best I can. My girlfriend is 25 and I'm 23, and I've been seeing her on and off for about 9 months. We really hit it off and spend so much time together, I really have been ...

Boyfriend's friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We have 4 children together. He cheated on me once before, a while ago and we've been fine until recently. His friend and I were always close but recently it's been more than that. I'm not and never have ...

Even though I'm extra careful having unprotected sex, I still worry something might go wrong.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

3 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have completely, unprotected sex. We're being really stupid about this (especially me) since I'm already and adult and she's still underage. Condoms are usually a little tight on my penis but, I forgot what the name was, that ...

Can this relationship last?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man I was with years ago. Friends said I was crazy to try again. I never got over him. He is just the same as he use to be. I love him though. We never do anything I want to do. He drinks every day. He sleeps ...

Is it okay to be friends? She wants us to be friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

3 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me 3 days ago. She says she doesn't want the responsibilty of a girlfriend. She says she doesn't want to see me and she is too busy and needs to concentrate on school. She says we can be friends. Do you think we can be ...

Am I right to hope that this man really cares about me and that in the future our friendship will develop into something more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - Hello, I would like some advice please since it is years since I last dated (my relationship of 9 years ended at the beginning of this year). I have been friends with a colleague for 3 years - just friends - but my feelings for him have become r...

I'm confused! Am I another victim of her mind game, or what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

3 December 2008 (M) - I've known this girl for almost a year now. She is 24 and I am 27. She is a superfriendly type of girl. By "superfriendly" I mean she is the megaflirty type who would make her male friends easily misunderstand her friendship to love. I know this ...

What do I do about this crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - I have a crush on my mum's cousin,who is eight years older than me.I dont know what to do.He doesnt live near me now,he used to,although i dont know him very well since i havent seen him much in my whole life,so because of that,it doesnt feel like ...

I'm having trouble trusting her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (M) - I am involved with a very sexy girl she's 22 says she loves me calls me her boyfriend and wants me live with her. We get on really well txt non stop and have graet sex so what is the problem?..... We I have beem hurt in the past by people c...

Suddenly developed feelings for a close friend, never ever felt attracted to her before for the 1+ year I've known her for !!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (M) - something really weird has happened. i became friends with this girl for just over a year ago. we went to different colleges yet still we started speaking quite alot. i never ever even thought about liking her. i didnt like her in anything more than ...

Is two months a short time to fall in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - does he love me? l have been dating this guy for 2 months,he doesn't call sometimes-its been two days now we recently got back together after l had ended things because he had come 3 hours late for an appointment.l said some horrible things ...

I like him but he says he is "off women", what more can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - There is a guy at school that I really like and have for a while now and I feel like its becoming more, but probably just for me. I have gone out with him and few times and we have kissed and stuff but it hasn't gone too far. He always talked about ...

Am I being greedy and asking too much here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I really need help with my b/f of 19 months. I'm seperated and waiting on divorce nearly 5 years now, my ex is holding things up constantly, so it stresses me out cos I can't state what I want as I feel I have no right to ask. I love my ...

His ex says my boyfriend is obsessed about sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - About two weeks ago I started dating a really nice guy. Him and his girlfriend had broken up the day before (bad idea I know). He has become very distant lately and whenever we're together his hands wonder directly to a certain part of my body....

Why didn't he respond to my text?? Talk about rude!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - Please please please could someone offer me an explanation for this? I am particularly interested in hearing a male perspective. Please. Why would a 40 year old man that I have just met, tell his best friend (also a good friend of mine) that he re...

Am I doomed to be lonely or will I find my Mr. Right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - Why am i still single at 25 i a m a 25 year old college graduate. i have dated several guys for only short period of time not because i find them either below my standards in terms of education, or their appearances dont quite appeal to me. I ...

Am I wrong for dating an old friends ex boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - Ok so I've been dealing with this in my head for a long time. I had a friend in high school, we were cool started hanging out in the 10th grade graduated class of 2000. I would go to her house after school on the weekends etc. At the time she was ...

How can I find out if I'm allowed to have a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (M) - hello this is mostly for teens or parents i really like this girl and we want to go out but i dont know if i am aloud or not can someone please tell me how i can find out if im aloud to have a girl friend without straight out asking if i am aloud ...

Any opinions or advice on how to proceed with this enigma of a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - I fancy the pants off of this guy that I met online (last January) but he lives in Scotland and I am stuck here. I came out and told him that I liked him. Later on he admitted that he liked me too but wishes that I wasn't here. I've decided to ...

How can I be more open in my relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - hi. this is my question- I'm a very strong person (as emotional content)in a relationship. When i first begin a new relationship seems that im very distant on the outside, but really im going crazy on the inside. I do not like to show that i'm ...

How can I get past the teasing of me, a 17 y/o dating a 14 y/o boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Why does it seem to be okay for a 19-year-old guy to date a 16-year-old-girl...but a newly-17-year-old girl cannot peacefully date an almost-14-year-old guy? I've been with my boyfriend (we're in the second situation)for a ...

My boyfriend's friends...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - Hello, hmm where do I begin... Well my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We were engaged, and he broke up with me because of one of his friends who is is a girl. I was devastated. I almost had a nervous breakdown. I lost hope and ...

Is there any way to get him off my mind and actually enjoy myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - I have been away from my b/f for 4 months now and have 4 more months before I get to see him, the holidays really have me down. Is there any way to get him off my mind and actually enjoy myself? ...

To chase or let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

3 December 2008 (M) - For those who like someone: If I like a girl how do I tell the difference between she enjoying the chase and her simply not interested in me? 1) If she likes the chase would it be safe to say that if she is talking to me when she wants in ...

Will he talk to me again or now ignore me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - Im not sure what to do! Theres this guy Ive been hanging out with for a while. He had a thing for me and we fooled around last year but ended up sleeping with/talking to 2 other girls at the same time. Over summer, he liked one girl, then jumpe...

My ex's new girlfriend looks just like me!! Is this weird or am I crazy?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - hi. Okay so my questions is this- Up on til two days ago my ex-boyfriend has been telling my best friends that he loves me and cant get over me. Then yesterday he calls my best-friend and tell her that he met a girl at one of his friends houses and ...

I'm completely in love with her and need your advice...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) - Hi! Well this isn't my first time to write on here, but I've never got to the bottom of my problem. I'm in my twenties, and I'm in total love with another woman in her thirties. Please don't question if this love, because I couldn't describ...