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female
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30-35,
*yameSohma
writes:After getting hurt and messed around almost constantly for a year, I finally met someone a few months ago who makes me smile and I have a bit of a crush on him.I only really see him once a month at a club we go to, and one time he told me he is recently single, and the next, walked to my bus with me. He is a very social person, so I dont know if he is just being friendly or may have an interest in me too. Im really scared of getting hurt again...We have a couple of mutual friends, one of which told me he had broken up with his last girlfriend and was not looking for a relationship right now. Do I leave it and get to know him for a while?Tell him I kinda like him, before someone snaps him up and I miss my chance? I dont know... Any help would be appreciated.
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reader, yorkshireboii +, writes (10 January 2011):
I have to agree with the above poster, or below, haha.
I have been in this situation before and I strongly encourage you to get to know him more and spend time socially as friends.
You seem to be just like me, afraid to be getting hurt again, but what you have to understand is that not everyone out there is destined to come along and hurt you. For the time being, just, play it cool and develop a strong friendship or something along the lines. In due time he may turn around and ask you to be his girl.
Now that would be something wouldn't it? Keep smiling girl :)
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 Mmm it doesn't sound like you're ready to get back out in to the dating world. Also, it's been said he isn't looking for a girlfriend right now..Plus, you're very vulnerable.
I say play it safe and get to know him first. Don't rush into it, that's where you'll get hurt.
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