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writes:ok so i had one of my friends message my boyfriend on myspace to mess with him to see if he would cheat or anything cause i really wanted to know. so she sent him a message and said hey you seem pretty cool and i wanna get to know you better. my boyfriend then said ehh okay give me your number and you can get to know me bettter. then my friend said i dont have texting on my phone but i would like to know if you have a girlfriend or not. and he said im not good at talking on the phone but we can try and no i dont have a girlfriend its all drama about that. and then she said drama about what if you dont mind me asking. and he said well my ex wants me back so i dont talk to her anymore. so i confronted him about it. i broke up with him and i told him im so stupid for ever trusting him and that i hate him! I said all your saying you truely love me so much was lies! he said he didnt have anything to say that i could think of him as a jerk or whatever. i really thought he cares about me cause he was so sweet he would cuddle with me hold me kiss my forehead, stay up with me when im sick, and was just the sweetest guy ever! and now my heart is just broken again! should i keep the relationship ended or what? and we are also expecting our first baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): 1) You shouldn't have had your friend set him up.
2) He should have said he was in a relationship.
3) This guy shouldn't have been your first choice for your baby's father.
All you can do now is stay broken up with him, since that's not exactly working, and try to make the best home and environment you can for your baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): I disagree with dreamer1988. She didn't 'log' into his myspace, she got a friend to message him. Which yes, is sly and shows she doesn't trust him. But, it's a good job she did, as he's an ass! And she obviously couldn't trust him, she proved herself right.
It's like saying a woman who's spying on her boyfriend to see if he's cheating is bad. Yeah it's bad, but it's not if she actually catches him betraying her!
You deserve better than this guy. You're very young to be having a child and even worse, with someone who has no respect for you. But of course, it's your decision what you want to do and whether you want to keep the baby, or stay with this jerk.
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reader, Dreamer1988 +, writes (9 January 2011):
 Logging into his myspace account is not very honest. You accuse him of lying, but you lied to him. You can't expect someone to treat you differently when you treat them a certain way. You need to grow up
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 Don't go back to him. Why on earth are you having his child at your age???? You have a whole life ahead of you. He blatantly told someone else that he was single, when he wasn't, you were right to end this. Now you have to do what's best for your unborn child...
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