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anonymous
writes:A few weeks ago I got with a guy in a club and one of my best friends started being really weird about it. I didn't think anything of it but then a few days later he confessed to me that he really liked me. I was a bit surprised at first but realised that I felt the same. After a few false starts we went on a real date and had our first kiss. Things moved pretty quickly from there and although we're not official or anything he has stayed over and has even told me that he loves me. I've been on my Christmas break for 3 weeks now and over that time we texted everyday, around 30 a day (i know thats a lot)He was always telling me how much he missed me, the last of these messages was received on New Years Eve. For the 2 days after New Years Eve though i barely heard from him at all and when i got in touch with him he said, completely out of the blue, that he couldnt see us working out and wanted to go back to just being friends. I asked him why but he couldnt give me a proper reason and i just dont understand... if he initiated the whole thing and seemed to positive and keen why would he suddenly change his mind and what should i do about it? Should i go back to just being friends, sever all ties, or try and salvage what might have been a relationship?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (7 January 2011):
 What is there to salvage? He said he doesn't see it working, so I believe he means what he says.
A few things could have happened here..He got attached really fast and seen you weren't that into then let it go, or he met someone else on New Year's Eve. In which I think it's the latter. That's why he's done a complete 180 on you. Keep it as friends, it's better than nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): i think you should remain friends for the time being and maybe in a years time give another go at it.
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