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male
age
41-50,
*teven1122
writes:I dated a girl last November for a month, it was great, i was starting to fall for her. suddenly i find out that she is starting to see the guy she was with before me, he was insisting to see her... when i confronted her, she asked for a break, and in December she was dating him (without telling me this), and we were theoretically on a "break"... that guy has been with her before for 2 times, and dumped her in both times, but it seems she has feelings for him; she used to say "he's the only man who has ever left me"... but during the whole period she didn't break any contact with me, even if i did, she always kept sending online messages like "i miss us... hope you can wait for me because i am confused etc". We met last week, we talked and she admitted that she dated him in the last December, but they broke up on a mutual understanding... and she wants us to remain friends (for now) because she's confused and doesn't know if she can offer me more... and i don't understand this "friendship" she asking for... i feel that she somehow doesn't want to lose me, but she doesn't wanna be with me, at least for now... and i also feel that if that guy shows up again, she might be hooked with him again... i don't know what to think or feel anymore... it's true that we dated only 1 month, but i fell for her. Any ideas, suggestions or advices?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): She's a headcase. She's using you as a fall back. Leave her hanging in the cold. Vanish without warning.
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