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25, virgin, and don't want to scare guys away

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Question - (21 January 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *y81 writes:

So I am going to be 25 and I am a virgin. It's by choice for the most part .. The problem is I'm very self conscious about myself .. I want to be with someone but because I'm not experienced it makes me even more self conscious ! I'm to afraid to hangout with a guy and not know what I'm doing .. It's sad actually.. Ive meet some

nice guys but ive let my insecurities get in the way and don't see them again ... So 'm trying get advice on how to approach the topic when I do meet a guy I like with out scaring him away ?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011):

You feel bad as you are getting on - in your eyes. It is the early bloomers who have problems in relationships in the respect that they are more likely to remarry or have more relationships over the course of their life. It is those in the 23-28 bracket they seem to be best at holding down relationships etc. - this don't mean you will find that person to live with forever, you might have 1 or 2 relationships before that stage.

No one needs to know that you are a virgin!

You will find it easier to join an adult community so you can pick up on others experiences and learn not to be so self conscious about your virgin status - its hot, trust me!

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A female reader, BeautifulCapricorn United States +, writes (24 January 2011):

dont woory about it. im the same age as you and im also a virgin. dont feel insecure about that if anything be proud that you held on to it for that long because not everyone can do that.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011):

Wouldn't scare me actually the opposite.I'm but if I was single I'd sex up women who gave it up to 3 or more men but when it came to wifey material it'd be virgins or women close to it I'd give royal treatment.I wouldn't wanna have to lay in bed every night with a woman turned off that other men hit it before me.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 January 2011):

olderthandirt agony auntHaving insecurities is one thing--feelings of insecurity because you're a virgin are quite different. If it's the later then get over yourself. Men would much rather be around a virgin than a tramp.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011):

just wait. It's not worth it if you're not comfortable. You will be with someone one day.

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