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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I saw my girl with another guy. She saw me and said, ''hi'' to me. I ignored her.After that she sent me a text saying,''You seem cold today. Why are you so down, or is it me?''What was the purpose of this sms? She knows I saw she was with another guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): She was just with him. It doesn't mean they were together in any romantic way! Ask her what happened and stop assuming. You can never know what the situation really is until you ask.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): You sound insecure and a bit paranoid. Was she just chatting with a man or was she humping his leg?
When you refuse to articulate your feelings even though she asks you and assume that she should know how you feel, you act like a child, not a man.
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reader, RayBones  +, writes (22 January 2011):
 she's power trippin' dude. Hurting you wasn't enough she wants to re-live the moment a few times over.
OR...
She doesn't feel she did anything wrong, and is wondering why you are ignoring her.
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reader, AuntyMaur  +, writes (22 January 2011):
 Assumption is the root of insecurity.
I think is was rude of you to ignore your friend just becuse she was talking to anther man, unless thier is factual evidence she is cheating.?
I think she is owed an apology. Do you stop talking to all females because your committed to a girl - I dont think so. People do not beome a possession once you start a relationship with them, you do not own them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): She's wondering why you ignored her. When you say "with another guy" what do you mean, exactly?
Talking? Kissing?
If she was just talking to another guy then you are the one with issues here.
Either way, ignoring her was very immature.
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