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writes:Hello Dear Cupid, I am looking for some opinions here...I have strong feelings for my coworker. Does she feel the same way? I don't know, it's fairly complicated. Between the 2 of us I believe she had interest first, but again nothing is certain.Anyways I was wondering about the following:We work closely and talk a lot. We'll ask each other about our plans or how our evening went the night before. Usually, there are standard responses. However, if I mention that I saw a movie that could be construed as a "date-type movie" she'll ask who was with me or who I went with. Keep in mind she does not know my friends.When I told her I went to a party she asked whether there were more girls or guys there.I could go into detail with more examples like this as well.My question: Does this mean anything? Does it mean that she has at least some interest in me? She is a very curious person by nature but she does not know my friends so some of those questions are interesting...not sure.
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reader, doublejack +, writes (21 January 2011):
I don't interpret those to be signs of interest. I've recently dated two different coworkers, and the green light signs they gave me were along the lines of overtly stating that they were single & unattached. Sort of a "hey, I'm single, are you interested?" type of cue. Of course, every woman is different.
The statements you point out are, in my opinion anyway, just conversational items where she's being a good friend and participating with follow-up questions. There's a girl I'm friends with who I'm certain is not interested in me in a romantic way, and she will ask how my dating life is going and share hers with me.
Also, a word of caution. I'm not opposed to dating women from work obviously as I do it, but I wouldn't date a woman if I worked closely with her. There's a lot of potential for drama in that situation if things go bad.
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