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I'm older than my boyfriend, am I doing anything bad?

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Question - (13 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 17 will be 18 in March. My boyfriend is 15 and will be 16 in February! I feel like he and i are on the same level and no relationship ive ever been in has been as good as this one is! Sometimes, I feel bad because I'm older. I just need a little reassurance that I'm not doing anything bad..

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (13 January 2011):

largentsgirl89 agony auntDOn't have sex with him after you are eighteen until he is sixteen in most states it's against the law and there is nothing wrong with your guys' age as long as you two are okay with it.

Kids your age can be cruel, while i'm sure his friends think he's a stud, your friend might make fun of you for dating a younger man, but there are women out there that are dating a guy twenty years or more younger than them.

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A female reader, fi_the_tree United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2011):

fi_the_tree agony auntTo be honest, girls who date younger men are not doing anything bad or wrong at all. Look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher, happily married and noone bats an eyelid!!

However, school kids can be a little harsh. If people in school are saying daft things, ignore them. If you're happy in your relationship then to hell with what anyone else thinks!!

Me and my ex were nearly 4 years apart (he was younger) and his mates thought he was a legend for scoring someone older!! (LOL) infact, until they actually met me, they didn't believe him...

So try not to worry too much, be happy with your boyfriend, girls dating younger guys is no problem at all :)

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