A
male
age
30-35,
*kir
writes:Hi, me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and a half and this weekend she is coming to stay at mine. If I have been reading the signs right and not been misunderstanding them, I think it may be the first time for us. The only thing is I'm not sure if she has done anything before, I have, so I don't really know how to go about it other than just see how it goes, and if it heads towards that then just make sure she is ok with it and take it slowly for her. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 You've already answered your own question. Relax, if things point towards sex just respectfully ask if she is ready and if she says "yes" then proceed on. Remember you don't want to force her into something she's not ready to engage in. Now if things don't lead to sex, no big deal, there's no need to rush into. There's always the next visit. FYI if you rush into sex, it has a great chance of turning into a disaster.
Note: Go out and purchase a pack of condoms. Be safe!
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