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I'm scared I might have hurt her when I chickened out of going further. I don't know what to do

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Question - (12 January 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, so i'm 15 and my girlfriend and I are talking about sex. But i'm scared to because i might hurt her. we've reached really close to having sex, but i chickened out. I told her this reason and she keeps saying it'll be ok... i don't know what to do.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011):

Rule of thumb.

Age when you are ready for sex is...

The age you feel you are ready + 2 years.

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A male reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2011):

Dr.LanceMerryweather agony auntI think the clue is in your last line... "I don't know what to do."

Your problem is your answer - your answer is your problem.

"If in doubt - leave it out" is my strong advice. You clearly are not ready for sex and may be feeling pressured by your girlfriend so, wait until it feels right. If that doesn't happen, then it's not fated to happen but will eventually, with the right girl.

Take it easy, take it slow.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (12 January 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt No, don't go for it- may I remind you that you and your gf are under legal age for sex in USA ?

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A male reader, Welsh Uncle Dave United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2011):

Just go for it.

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