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30-35,
*trong__dan
writes:I was seeing a guy only for a couple weeks. Only had a couple dates. Well last night I texted him cause i wanted to hangout and he was just a jerk, and he has been from the dates. I started getting mad, then i showed up at his house for him to not be there. Then i got furious, and he said things and I said things. Around noon today he texted me and asked if i was still angry. He said he didn't care and he ended up stop texting me. so I finally said well I hope you have a good new years and i'm sorry about last night and stuff. All he said was you too, no biggie. Does that mean we are done, I wanted to hangout today :(. I leave to go back to school on tuesday and he goes back to work tomorrow.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 January 2011):
You might be, I'm afraid. You've only been dating for a couple of weeks, and you blew your top way, way too soon. You can't just start dating a man and suddenly expect him to be there all the time only to explode when he's not there and actually go to his house. That's quite scary, almost needy behaviour and it easily puts a guy off.
Also, you said he was a jerk beforehand, so why even bother with him anyway. If he is a jerk, don't date him.
If you want to make this up, then you need to speak to him again and ask to meet to talk about what happened. But to be honest, this already sounds like a disaster to me.
In the future, be calm, be cool. If a guy you haven't been dating all that long says he can't make it once, then don't blow your top and go to his house! And don't date jerks either.
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reader, Secretlife  +, writes (2 January 2011):
Yes yall are finish. He didn't like you that much or he wouldn't have been so rude to you. Time to move on.
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