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writes:I have been dating this guy for 3 months.He is a widow, and I am divorced.We seem to really like each other, but I am still wondering what to make of the relationship.I travel to see him, and we email everyday.But, I am still wondering how he feels about me.I have told him several times that he is my best friend, and how much I look forward to see him.He never talks about his feelings.I want to ask, but I don't want to seem pushy, and scare him away.I know he cares for me, but I am wondering if he's not ready for a relationship- it's been 2 years since he lost his wife.Should I just come out and ask?Or wait for him to feel comfortable enough to open up to me?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 September 2009):
Well most guys aren't all that great at opening up. Maybe you should sit down and ask him how he would like the relationship to progress. Open up a bit yourself. that might help. Just take it easy.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (29 September 2009):
 I think you should let things grow naturally. Don't be pushy. Two years isn't that long to get over a bereavement (I assume that's what you mean by 'lost his wife'.
One step at a time grasshopper.
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