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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (30 September 2009):
 Sometimes, all it takes is a leap of faith. Just like the song says... great song.
"I knew I was never gonna change my luck, till I got my courage up, enough to try." :-)
Ask him! Ask him! Ask him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. I will let you know how it goes. We spend a week on another placement before London and we're at different schools. Might be good for me to spend time away from him. Just have to not fall into the trap of over facebook messaging him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 September 2009):
Yes, I really do understand. I asked out 10 girls and they all said no. The 11th said yes. Be brave and talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm absolutely terrified. but i guess i am just going to have to bite the bullet and do it aren't I? I've never had a relationship and other guys I've asked out rejected me so you can understand my nerves, right?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 September 2009):
That has been known to work. But it may not. I think you need to be brave and just ask him face to face when you're sober. If he's not interested, your friendship doesn't have to end. Just remember that he is that. A friend! Be brave and ask.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust thought I'd pop this idea by people- we're going to London on a school trip for a week in october. Reckon it would be safe to ask him out in a group and then try explaining things to him then. Or casually trying to kiss him after a few drinks. Then if things go wrong we can always blame drinking and still be friends.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (29 September 2009):
 Do it. Be casual, calm, ask him to go grab a bite somewhere, but don't think that you have to wait around for him to make the first move just because he's the guy.
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reader, tommaso +, writes (29 September 2009):
there are meny ways to show a guy you like him if he does not respond it means he is not interested, I think if a guy is really interested in a girl he overcomes his shyness
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): Go for it, nothing more flattering than being asked out, if he says no the say its okay and mean it. Plenty more guys out there but like oldersister says keep it light and easy going and all will be well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat would be a great idea if we didn't meet for coffee every morning already. It's sort of an arangment that we'll sit together early in the morning waiting for everyone else to arrive. That's one of the reasons my friends think he likes me.But there's something I should mention- he has loads of girl mates so I'm not sure if he just sees me as another mate. Its hard teling with the blokes who are in touch with their feminine side!
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (29 September 2009):
 I think Oldersister is so right. This is also a way to spare you the embarrasment.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 September 2009):
You've answered your own question! What if he's shy and nothing happens!!!? Be brave, and ask him out! :). Lots of luck.
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