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writes:So my boyfriend needs help giving oral sex. He's got the right attitude and loves doing it, but to be honest he's not very good at it. The thing is I've never had it done well so I have no idea what to tell him. Can some people give things to do that will feel great? I'm not one of those people who has a ton of trouble orgasming or anything and I definitely know what feels good when it comes to hands, I'm just kind of clueless as to how to guide his mouth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): He wants to do better too, I'm sure. So be clear when he's hitting a spot that's good. Hearing a breathless: "Ya, ya, like that;" "Right there;" "Not so hard;" is a real incentive. Sometimes speaking too clearly at that particular moment is a mood killer, so just make more noise when it's good. Lord knows I've always been very grateful for feedback that helps me improve -- no doubt he will be too.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (29 September 2009):
 Fingers in, tickling the G, tongue up above on the C. If he's like me, his hand should fit under his chin and be able to do it all at once.
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reader, rcn +, writes (29 September 2009):
 I don't think I do that great, but my fiance enjoys it. Guide him like you do with hands. When people dance, you generally have a lead, and a follow. I don't know if this will help you or not, but when giving oral, I'm the follower. I'm lead by her movements, sounds, breathing, etc. So depending on what she's doing will determine where I focus. I hope this helps.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (29 September 2009):
Some things will feel good to others that may not feel as good to some. It has to be based on what you like. So you have to be encouraging about it. If he just for a second does something you like tell him, "Can you do that again but longer, because it feels really good." Or, "Can you try doing _____." It's your body and you know what feels good to you, let him know that you like what he does now, BUT it would be even better if he did whatever it is that feels good for you.
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