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36-40,
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writes:Hi,I'm not sure what to do about my boyfriend. He is obsessed with my boobs, to the point where it's stupidly irritating.I only see him at weekends, usually Friday to 7am Monday, and during that time he touches them as often as he can.I will be sat playing a computer game, reading a book, on my laptop and he will put his hand down/up my top and grab/rub them. That may not sound like a problem but he does it all the time.I've told him it's annoying because it really is. I'm fine with it during intercourse and whatnot but there's a time and a place.He also wakes me up about 1/2 times a night to have a wank on them. Being woken up at 1am-5am can be really frustrating.I don't know how to stop him. I've asked nicely, I've told him straight out and he's not getting the message. He tells me he just loves them but that doesn't give him the right to constantly try and grab them.What can I dooo???
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): He's immature to a level that is of concern. If he can't modulate his actions, then it's very likely a BAD SIGN for you.
I'd cut him off and the first time he grabs at you, grab his hand and give him a "NO"... it he doesn't stop, get a newspaper and hit him on the nose... it works for most dogs.
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents  +, writes (29 September 2009):
 Yes, I can definitely see the comical cuteness in this scenario. However, I also know that people have broken up over pettier things. And I can definitely imagine that on weekends she might be feeling maybe like a mother cat with her litter hanging on to her at all times. I don't think I'd want to feel that way. It would probably be very annoying. Unfortunately, this kind of behavior could be classified as typical of an early youthful relationship and just doesn't go on forever on its own... so then when the obsessive petting would stop, I personally would be half missing it by then, because I would then know that he is finally "over" my boobs.
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